This book doesn’t acknowledge its own bias. It is written exclusively for romantic relationships, assumes the narcissist is male and the “victim” is female. It doesn’t acknowledge LGBTQIA identities at all - narcissists can also be ace and queer! It is very white middle class based experience and only occasionally acknowledges anything beyond a romantic relationship. If it was branded that way it would be more honest - I also would have never picked it up.
Where to begin…as someone who studied neuropsychology the “brain science” is a very bad joke. Most of it isn’t even referenced.
The book is actually about character building, which could have been good. What is not good was the tone of the author and how she put down every other way of writing a story. She puts down plot in a book - like what? Also, she knocks science fiction several times as well.
The preferred audience is white, straight people. She uses he or she and never gender neutral terminology. Heterosexuality and sexual attraction was assumed, but where I finally called it quits was when she used the f word to talk about a gay fundamentalist Christian that pretended to be straight so God would love him.
I mean I should have known when she said 50 Shades of Grey had great characterization. I tried to keep reading because I waisted money on this book. I actually picked it up from the bookstore because I thought it would sit proudly on my writing bookshelf. I finally realized that even if there was some nuggets of wisdom to get from this book they should have shown up in the first 80 pages, and instead all I got was bad science, self importance, and homophobia.
Maybe because I know nothing of the music I didn’t feel the need to continue. The world building and character development isn’t great, and for what was being told it really needed to be.