Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
1.0
Yeah, this book was not for me. I kept reading because I was waiting for it to get better but unfortunately it didn't.
First of all, why use a Vietnam war story as some sort of allegory for confessing to a crush? Why are four adults so fixated on setting up two teenagers? (Even if they are their parents, it's odd for them to be SO involved) Then there's a ton of build up which leads you to believe that Ari's brother would have a super complicated and interesting back story and then it's just "Oh, he killed a trans woman with his bare hands, unprovoked". Which was not only a really boring choice plot-wise, but felt weird as a trans reader. Also, there was no substance to the story. Nothing meaningful. There's no conflict outside of a couple of teenagers complaining and arguing over nothing.
Also, Ari repeatedly says that he loves Dante, that he's his best friend, etc. There's never any notion that Ari is romantically interested in him. But yet, his parents basically coax him into saying he's in love with Dante on the premise that if he wasn't, he wouldn't look out for him. Which is crazy— can friends not save each other's lives or beat up each other's enemies?
That being said, as a Mexican-American guy, a lot of their conversations about their culture were nice.
I don't know. I heard great things about this book but I figure it's just meant for a High School audience.
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
I really enjoyed this book! The setting and characters are so interesting and you get to explore them in-depth throughout the story. Also, as a trans person, I thought the trans representation was well-executed. I appreciate when a piece of media has a trans character in it, without the whole story being about it. I would definitely recommend this book :)
"It is enough to exist in the world and marvel at it."
The author's writing style is so bland and the ending was very anti-climactic. I don't mind the fact that it was not a happy ending. The issue is that it's so meaningless and disjointed from the rest of the story. That being said, I don't enjoy reading romance in general (I just read this for a book club) so my opinion might be biased and to be fair there were a few paragraphs that were relatable and well-written.
Green documents his personal experiences as well as some insights on the state of the trans community during the 80's and 90's. I thought it was very interesting.
I enjoyed reading this book but it was extremely character-driven aka not much actually happens. The book is mostly spent on characters reflecting on the past and the hypothetical. That being said the characters are endearing and funny so it was worth the read. It just seemed like the plot had a lot of potential and I would've liked to see more of it.