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nicolinebl's reviews
254 reviews
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Moderate: Alcoholism, Animal death, Death, Infidelity, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Grief, Stalking, Suicide attempt, Death of parent
Did not finish book. Stopped at 9%.
2.0
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.75
Graphic: Child abuse, Death, Gun violence, Pedophilia, Sexual violence, Slavery, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Violence, Trafficking, Kidnapping, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Murder
Moderate: Alcoholism, Drug use
Minor: Miscarriage, Dementia
4.75
So yeah, really glad with this book. I've read stuff about minimalism which was great but this method worked better for me.
I took off 0.25 of the rating because sometimes things were a bit repetitive but that's honestly fine, this book was great and had fantastic tips.
5.0
4.5
Het klonk intrigerend omdat het zo diep ingaat op de gevreesde angststoornis waar ik ook zelf mee zit; een onderwerp waar ik nog nooit echt non-fictie boeken over had gelezen.
Ik vroeg me af - ook doordat er werd benoemd op de achterkant dat filosofen worden behandeld - hoe begrijpbaar/makkelijk de tekst zou zijn. Ik kan nu constanteren dat het een erg prettig en begrijpbaar boek was.
Het las erg vloeiend, had zelfs een bepaald soort humor die ik zeker kon waarderen aangezien het eigenlijk over een best heftig onderwerp gaat. Er zijn ontzettend veel verschillende onderdelen behandeld, wat ik erg fijn vond, ik had echt het gevoel dat dit een goed uitgewerkt boek was. Er werden interessante feiten gegeven (vooral het stuk over medicijnen/farmaceutische bedrijven en de DSM was interessant), gesprekken met mensen, én, naar mijn mening een van de meest waardevolle dingen aan dit boek: een heel eerlijke kijk in het leven van de auteur zelf. Ik kon echt waarderen dat er zo open werd gesproken over zijn eigen issues, iets wat toch eigenlijk heel eng is om te doen. Ik vind ook dat het boek me dingen heeft gegeven om over na te denken. Ik wil geen grote spoilers geven maar aan het einde komt er een soort 'conclusie/idee' uitrollen die me enigszins verraste maar eigenlijk ook wel iets had.
Een erg fijn boek waar veel bookmarks bij zijn geplaatst om later terug te kunnen lezen. Een duidelijk, eerlijk (herkenbaar) beeld voor helaas veel mensen en interessant om meer te lezen over die angst die velen van ons constant in de greep houdt.
Graphic: Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship
Minor: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Bullying, Self harm, Schizophrenia/Psychosis
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Those other books were great and I loved them but I've just never been so - intoxicated almost - by a book. I haven't dared to read a book with lots of pages for years but I'm glad I did because this is hands down the best book I've ever read.
I didn't want to put it down, didn't want the story to end though either. Its topics are very heavy but I thought there were a lot of positive themes in here as well. About love and hope and painful honesty; about friendship and family and choosing your own family.
I don't even know how to explain how much I admired this book. Its characters who felt so real and so lovely (Harold, Andy, Willem, Jude, Malcolm, Richard, so many fantastic characters); the way the story was built, starting slowly and unraveling as you go along in such a mind-blowing way.
What I heard about this book a lot was how heavy it was and that it was basically made to trigger you. Yes, it was very heavy, but I don't feel like it was done in a "let's emotionally fuck up some people" kind of way (although it did mess with my heart haha). It was written so thoughtfully and beautifully and with so much respect and I just admire this book so much.
Edit: I read some other reviews (I guess less positive ones, and although they make fair points - the book being unrealistic is probably mentioned the most - I don't feel like it took down my appreciation for this book while reading it.
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Body horror, Bullying, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Torture, Toxic relationship, Blood, Vomit, Medical content, Dementia, Kidnapping, Grief, Car accident, Suicide attempt
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
I very much enjoyed this book and will definitely watch the movie to see if it is as good as the book it is based on.
Minor: Addiction, Alcoholism, Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, Mental illness, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Grief, Stalking