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32 reviews
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Death, Misogyny, Death of parent, Abandonment, and War
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Bullying, Hate crime, Violence, Car accident, Murder, Pregnancy, and Colonisation
Minor: Drug use, Miscarriage, Torture, Blood, Grief, and Injury/Injury detail
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Death, Infertility, Sexual assault, Grief, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Bullying, Cursing, Mental illness, Pregnancy, Fire/Fire injury, and Alcohol
Minor: Rape, Suicide, and Blood
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
the only problem I had along is that while many introspective subjects are approached, the main character John, seems a bit dumb with its questions. I get why, but it was just very obvious for me and a bit tedious. overall, I really enjoyed this book and I'm left pondering some life aspects of mine because of it, even if the subjects seemed basic, I liked that because it felt like "the spark to lit up a fire" for me and my ideas and the fact that it didn't go into too much detail with every subject they approached and didn't tell you exactly what to do to achieve the exact thing they searched for, hold onto the idea of the book when they said that we shouldn't follow the exact narrative of someone's story just because we liked the way it went and write our own learning from the ones we heard.
definitely gonna reread it someday.
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Graphic: Death, Misogyny, Rape, and Suicide
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
it's like I just read about my past, my present and my future. I was certain of my ideas with the unfairness women get in this society but it still took me by surprise with how bad Korea is at this.
I'm so sad and angry that all I read is normal for so many women to endure and go through without complaining because "that's just the way it is."
until now I kept my cool and didn't talked back when I overheard nonsenses from men, but I won't be silenced anymore by the thought of "overreacting" from their side. it's educating what I'd do, but they can't understand or accept that anyways. still, I'll speak.
a must read to wake you up from the numbness of suppression or to give a wake up call to the ignorants in comfort.
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
anyways, it was a nice relaxing read. it's nice to see that two people can love each other so much and keep their love throughout the years even tho it was quite a wacky, kinda weird process.
I could relate to the characters a lot and that brought comfort to me, except with the part where they're talking about suicide and depression, that triggered me, but also encouraged me in some type of way.
really felt like I was next to them all through reading the book.
the part with obeying tho, kinda annoyed me, but it's understandable in this situation let's say.
also, I love how the emotions of everyone from the book are emphasized and discovered to the public, especially for Connor. it was nice to see a man as a human for once.
I was continuously screaming at them tho because of the lack of communication they were having, it frustrated me to see how big the drama could get, just from not exchanging 2 words. I loved their love sometimes but I don't think I want to have something as such.
in the end, what I loved most about this book is how real and down to life it was, I could easily see something like this happen to someone in real life.
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Eating disorder, Physical abuse, Suicide, and Death of parent
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
it was very easy to imagine all the characters and even after I put the book down, I was thinking about them and giggling about what could happen next.
at the end, it made my heart feel at ease with the detailed epilogue and the closed ending but in the beginning I often felt angered with the life that the main character, Kate, had to live. it often triggered me with the misogyny and the disrespect of her family caused by their "she'll always be here" mentality... and the book is fully anchored in the old way of thinking (gende roles and all that) even if it often says otherwise in the book itself. I guess that makes it true to reality, because that's how life actually is after all.
also, something a bit weird I found to be is sometimes you're made aware that there's a narrator to the story by the way it's told, even tho through most of it you don't even realise it.
Graphic: Misogyny
Moderate: Death of parent
Minor: Animal cruelty, Mental illness, Pregnancy, Injury/Injury detail, and Deportation
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
so it was so exciting and rushing when the timelines intersected, only then it started to make sense.
I love how it made me think of dozens of suspects and feel all the paranoia and fear with the characters...
one thing is sure tho, this book made me be sure of it again eh. all men are pigs.
Graphic: Death, Infidelity, Mental illness, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, and Murder
Moderate: Self harm, Toxic relationship, Violence, and Stalking
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Rape, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Alcoholism, Death, Eating disorder, and Death of parent
Minor: Cancer, Suicide, Car accident, and Abortion