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shanaepraystoo's reviews
848 reviews
2.5
The author reiterates her note about realistic characters at the end of the book as if that’s some explanation for this story that just isn’t well written in my opinion.
And the worst part is the way the author deals with the issue of sexual assault — there’s victim blaming from both main characters, there’s one line about the victim going to therapy, and the dialogue about the sexual assault is bookended, multiple times, by the MMC’s sexual interest in the FMC.
I do not recommend this book.
Moderate: Sexual assault and Sexual content
Minor: Infidelity and Abandonment
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
5.0
Moderate: Cursing and Sexual content
Minor: Body shaming, Bullying, Fatphobia, and Infidelity
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Pros:
- The sibling relationships between Marley and her sister Harper as well as the one between Czar, Romeo, and Nova are loving and caring - this is what I want to see more of in urban literature, especially.
- Czar's troubled childhood is handled with supreme care and his method of coping is natural and expect for a man like him, even if it is somewhat unhealthy.
- The secondary characters in the book are all well developed and interesting
- The twists and turns come out of nowhere, keeping you on your toes. Though I read a lot of books, I definitely thought Losin Control was going in one direction, but Ladii Nesha does a good job at making unexpected twists.
- I loved the ending.
Cons:
- The author's choice
to not reveal that Pam had spoken with Benny - The fact that Benny
wasn't really dead - The way
Czar played Marley in front of thousands of people at his concert , or - I liked how strong Marley was presented in the beginning and middle of the book, though she had endured serious trauma, but when I saw how weak she was in relationships, it really disappointed me,
especially considering her attitude towards her mother. - I thought the ending was rushed.
All in all, Losin Control is one of my favorite reads of the year and I'll definitely be recommending it to everyone. If you're a fan of slow burns, can appreciate a thought provoking story with character growth over a period of natural ups and downs, and appreciate a book that will take you on a rollercoaster over emotions, then you HAVE to read Losin Control.
Spice Rating: 3 stars - there are few spicy scenes, but the ones that are in the book are vivid.
Graphic: Bullying, Child death, Cursing, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Self harm, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Grief, Pregnancy, Toxic friendship, and Abandonment
Moderate: Body shaming, Death, Drug use, Gun violence, Infidelity, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Violence, Death of parent, Murder, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Infertility, Miscarriage, Suicidal thoughts, Blood, Vomit, Stalking, Abortion, Suicide attempt, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , and Fire/Fire injury
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.0
I really enjoyed Surrender and recommend it to anyone seeking a cozy story with no relationship drama and minimal spice.
Minor: Emotional abuse, Sexual content, Medical content, Pregnancy, and Abandonment
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
5.0
Moderate: Bullying, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Toxic friendship, and Alcohol
Minor: Infidelity, Violence, Vomit, and Abandonment
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Moderate: Cursing, Emotional abuse, Sexual content, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Physical abuse, Abortion, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
2.0
Moderate: Cursing, Death, Gun violence, Sexual content, and Violence
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Cursing
Moderate: Death, Gun violence, Misogyny, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Drug use, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Blood, and Alcohol
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Cursing, Sexual content, and Abandonment
Moderate: Addiction, Death, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Physical abuse, Violence, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Murder, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Bullying, Domestic abuse, Toxic relationship, Blood, Kidnapping, Stalking, and Abortion