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- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.75
Plot:⭐⭐⭐/5
Writing:⭐⭐⭐⭐/5
Characters:⭐⭐⭐/5
Overall:⭐⭐.75/5
Sadness: 0/5
Romance:❤️❤️❤️/5
Tropes: Friends To Lovers
Love and Other Foreign Words by Erin McCahan are about Sixteen-year-old Josie who is incurably smart in all things especially languages, not just English and Latin (and many others) but also languages like high school, college, friends, and many more but one language she struggles with is love. When Josie's old sister announces that she is engaged to a boy that Josie absolutely hates, Josie is unable to think of the wedding as anything but a mistake.
With these new revelations that Josie may not 100% understand the Language of love, Josie is forced to look inside herself and has to figure out not only what love truly is but what love means to her.
In my opinion, the biggest strong point of this book is the pacing and writing, I was not expecting to read this book as fast as I did, I had read this book in almost exclusively (I read a couple of pages at home) at work and had finished it in two shifts. The way this book is written just makes it so easy to zoom through it, the writing is truly addictive and one of my favorite parts of this book.
This book was also incredibly funny, I was laughing throughout the whole book.
The main character Josie is an incredibly smart person which means at some moments I felt like a complete idiot but I really enjoyed the way the author wrote Josie and the inner workings of her brain. I am going, to be honest, Josie did get on my nerves quite often with the fact that she wouldn't listen to anyone about her feeling about her upcoming sister's wedding and was making everything about her. It also frustrated me so much the way she treated her sister's fiancé and how she kept talking about why she didn’t like him versus trying to truly look and figure out why her sister loves him.
Josie's best friend Stu is by far my favorite character throughout the whole book, every time he was in a scene, I was laughing throughout the whole scene. I do wish there was a lot more of him in the book because, for someone who is supposed to be Josie's best friend, there weren’t a lot of scenes with him in them.
Speaking of Stu, Josie and his relationship was basically the whole reason I was reading this book (I’m a sucker for a good friends to lovers book) and though I do think they are really cute together, I don’t think we got enough scenes of them together for me to truly fall in love with them. For the first half of this book, I honestly thought I had been lied to about the friends to lovers plot because I thought her love interest was going to be Stefan because he had way more scenes in the book than Stu did and seemed to spend way more time with Josie then Stu did.
Speaking of this in my opinion Josie seemed to be close with Stu’s sister Sophie because Josie spent way more time with her than with Stu. Even when she was hanging out with Stu, Sophie still showed up and it seemed that it would turn into her and Sophie hanging out. She even texted and talked to Sophie WAY more.
Overall, I wish Josie and Stu’s relationship had been a little more developed and that we got more scenes with Josie and Stu together.
Finally, the last thing I want to talk about is Josie's parents, who frustrated the crap out of me! It bugged me so much that not once did they try and help the girls work through their problems. They never sat down with Josie and explained why the way she is acting towards her sister and her fiancé is not okay, they never once tried to help her see why Kate was acting the way she is.
It also frustrated me that they never talked to Kate about how some of the comments she was making towards Josie's appearance could be hurtful towards Josie. They never told Kate that just because she is stressed out about her wedding doesn’t mean she can be rude to people.
There were just so many moments that they weren’t doing the things that a parent should have done and helped their daughters work out their issues with each other. Also for her dad to be someone who works with children’s minds, he really couldn’t see that his daughter is most likely has ASD and she was acting the way she was acting was because of all the changes in her life.
Overall, I quite enjoyed this book and the writing, I would be interested in reading her other books
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Biphobia, Body horror, Child abuse, Child death, Confinement, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gore, Gun violence, Hate crime, Homophobia, Infertility, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Terminal illness, Torture, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Police brutality, Medical content, Kidnapping, Grief, Medical trauma, Car accident, Death of parent, Murder, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Sexual harassment, Injury/Injury detail
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Biphobia, Body horror, Child abuse, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gore, Hate crime, Homophobia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Terminal illness, Torture, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Police brutality, Medical content, Kidnapping, Grief, Medical trauma, Car accident, Death of parent, Murder, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Sexual harassment, Injury/Injury detail
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Minor: Hate crime, Racism
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
0.0
Update 3/4/2022
I really hate that I have to write this right now because I really enjoyed this book and all of Dana Isaly other works that I have read but because of some information that has come to light about the author, I have decided that I can't with good conscience continue to read and support her.
Because of this, I have also decided to lower the rating of this book from 4 stars to 0 star and I will not be reading any of her future works.
Ratings:
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
0.0
Plot:⭐/5
Graphic: Gore, Torture, Violence, Blood, Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment
4.75
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Sexual content, Toxic relationship
Moderate: Death, Gun violence, Violence
Minor: Cancer, Grief, Murder