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- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Graphic: War and Colonisation
Moderate: Racism, Violence, and Blood
I picked up this book after being invested in and obsessed with the Toni and Ryan Podcast for the last two years, and absolutely loved it! Toni's voice is so authentic and I could honestly hear her reading it in her voice in my head. Her humour, but also her deep stories and authenticity, both shone through in the pages and made this a wonderful (albeit emotional, at times) read.
I loved the fact that each chapter is named after a lie she told herself, and I found a lot of the content to be very relatable. It almost felt at times that I was reading my own memoir, so cheers to Toni for that, you love to see it (or maybe not if a lot of it was related to anxiety...). Also, I could've sworn only my mother called the caravan park bathrooms the "ablution block" but I guess not, the more you know.
I do think that perhaps those who don't already know and have a (parasocial) relationship with Toni may not get as much out of this, but it is a funny, emotional, heartwarming journey through her life until now, with a bit emphasis on her mental health and journey with grief.
Due to the non-chronological nature of the book, there were a couple events that were rehashed multiple times that did stall the pacing just a little, but I was having such a great time with the book that it wasn't a huge deal for me.
I would recommend, particulalry for those who are TARPers (fans of the Toni and Ryan Podcast) and if you're not a fan, go check it out because it's a whole lot of hilarious nonsense that's so much fun.
Graphic: Death of parent, Cancer, and Mental illness
Moderate: Fatphobia, Panic attacks/disorders, Medical content, and Alcohol
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
There were some very good and interesting conversations and points throughout this book on the prison system (in the USA, specifically) and the treatment of incarcerated humans, as well as demographics of people more likely to be subject to these things. As a non-American, I thought the footnotes were useful to provide context and outline some of the hypocrisy in the system and judgements made. They were also used sparingly so didn't interrupt the overall flow of the story.
There were many points of view, but I found I followed them all well and I liked how we got the intersection of all these stories by the end. I have seen people say they got confused listening to the audio, but personally, having read the book with my eyes, I thought it was easy to follow who the character of interest was each chapter. I think the multiple POVs gave a lot of context to the dystopian world and really hit home the shocking nature of the death games, and how involved the community is.
The characters in here were really interesting. I appreciated how we saw them as human, but their crimes were never pushed to the background. It was a really good way of showing that even people who have committed crimes are human and have the ability to think, feel and change in some circumstances. It was a good way of furthering some of the points made in the book, particulalry about the death penalty and solitary confinement.
The only real thing I wanted more from was the ending. I read it and was like "that's it?", though I did go back and reread the last chapter and it did feel a little more solid of an ending the second time when I knew I was on the last chapter. I'm just not a huge lover of an open ending, so I personally would've liked to see a little more resolution, particularly in the other storylines. But part of me also thinks maybe the point was that, as much as the others fight, it's not going to nicely resolve in such a short period of time. I think I'll be pondering this ending for a while, either way.
Graphic: Death, Murder, Violence, and Police brutality
Moderate: Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Self harm, and Suicide
Minor: Sexual assault, Rape, and Domestic abuse
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Violence, War, and Homophobia
Moderate: Car accident, Death of parent, Infidelity, Kidnapping, Murder, Racism, Suicide, Drug use, Racial slurs, and Torture
Minor: Alcohol, Cancer, and Sexual content
Graphic: Alcoholism, Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Addiction, Colonisation, Drug abuse, and Racism
Moderate: Suicide
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Police brutality, Transphobia, and Violence
Minor: Sexual assault
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Transphobia, Deadnaming, and Homophobia
Minor: Alcohol
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Graphic: Deadnaming, Transphobia, Religious bigotry, and Homophobia
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Transphobia, Religious bigotry, Homophobia, and Deadnaming
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5