Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
I love this book with my whole being, and I while there are parts of it that might be considered problematic in a modern context, the heart of the book is earnest and funny and brilliant. Definitely one of my all-time favorites. I also cannot recommend the full cast audio version enough. It’s absolutely wonderful and the actors bring such a vivid book to life fantastically.
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
This book is exquisite and while the main characters are all cishet passing the text is careful to use relatively gender neutral language regarding pregnancy and includes brief representation of a nonbinary pregnant person and uses gender neutral pronouns for them, and when discussing the sex of the baby makes reference to how while they may learn the sex of the child at birth they won’t know the child’s gender until they are old enough to tell people themself. It’s very refreshing. The romance was super cute and overall it was just a really thoughtful book about an unexpected circumstance that turns out well for everyone involved.
Graphic: Grief, Sexual content, Medical content, Pregnancy, and Infertility
Moderate: Death of parent, Vomit, Toxic relationship, and Terminal illness
Minor: Miscarriage and Sexism
The main character gives birth on-screen so to speak, but it is not described in extreme detail. One of the characters is in an emotionally abusive and manipulative relationship for a significant portion of the book.
In general the different cultural attitudes are described thoughtfully and always with empathy towards the deceased and their loved ones. The topic is a rough one that people who are distressed by death and all that comes with it might be uncomfortable with but this book is nevertheless potentially helpful for someone experiencing and contextualising their grief and/or how they themself would like their body to be treated after death.
Graphic: Medical content, Miscarriage, Medical trauma, Death, Animal death, Blood, Suicide, Death of parent, Grief, Abortion, and Child death
Moderate: Classism, Gore, Cancer, Infertility, and Cannibalism
In general the book talks about death in depth including different cultural beliefs and actions regarding the process. There is one description of animal sacrifice that is fairly explicit, and an intense recounting of circumstances to terminating a wanted pregnancy due to terminal illness and risk of miscarriage/early infant death, not only in regards to emotions and procedures but also the reactions of anti-choice protesters.