Grace Perry's The 2000s Made Me Gay is a collection of short essays about the pop culture that shaped Perry as a queer millenial. Navigating identity through pop culture that is largely cis-gendered and heteronormative has an impact, and Perry does so with humour and a certain self-awareness that while somewhat depricating (in the best way possible), is enviable. Open and honest, 2000s Made Me Gay is open and honest in a way that feels like a celebration of not only the pop culture media that would be by modern standards 'problematic' but queer identity as well.
Reading this nearly a decade after it first came out was interesting. Ten years ago? 5 star read, made me sob and look at the world differently. Now, I give it a 3.5 -- definitely one of the reason's I'm pro reading a book at different stages in your life. Still a fundamnetally good book, but it is interesting the way your perspective changes when you re-read after years (I probably haven't re-read since 2015 or 2016) -- who you identify with, what makes you roll your eyes, what makes you laugh, little quips you remember underlining the first time round annoy you now. I also understand why John Green once said this was a book he could only write after becoming a parent, which adds just an additional level of heartbreak.
After a bit of a slow start, I'm glad I stuck this out. It made me laugh, a lot. Especially Luc's mum (audiobook recommended for the full experience). Side characters are well developed, and the character growth both on Luc and Oliver's part is worth sticking out.