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yfbpodcast's review against another edition
3.0
The ending redeemed a lot of this for me. But oh man, the dialogue here was...ehhh... Got lots to talk about in the upcoming podcast episode for this one. Stay tuned!
opportunist's review against another edition
4.0
probably the first ya book i ever read. i should reread it sometime
misskeesa's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
inspiring
reflective
slow-paced
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Content Warnings
Moderate: Sexual content
vita_s_west's review against another edition
4.0
This is an engaging and complex read that covers a lot of notable topics entwined with growing up; cultural appropriation, diaspora, life as a second generation immigrant, etc. The book was filled with lively and diverse characters with their own struggles and backstory. The one draw back was that it was a little too long. Born Confused was flush with background, subplots and rich descriptions of setting, so the length had much less to do with poor writing than with poor editing. The author had a clear set up from the beginning and much of the course of the book clear from page 100. However, the results didn't occur for another 300 pages. While this was too many pages to be concise, it does not necessarily mean that they were not well written or enjoyable pages. The voice and the narration were entertaining and the drama was involving. It was just longer than it needed to be.
arisbookcorner's review against another edition
5.0
The only problem with this book is that it moves veeerrryyy slowly and it times it reads like a 'everything you need to know about South Asian culture' guide. I loved learning about South Asian culture' the terms, the food, the clothes, but at the same time, some of this information is passed down through lectures or infodumps done by characters. Other than that, I absolutely loved this book. You don't have to be South Asian to identify with this book (although I have no doubt you would love this book even more if you were), anyone who is second or third generation can relate to not feeling quite American but not feeling as though you are a part of your culture either. We seem to be stuck between two worlds and are constantly trying to reconcile them. Every page in this book contains at least one memorable line, there are a lot of deep thoughts being shared between characters and these conversations are golden. They are the type of conversations that many dream of having with your friends, when you can tell them anything at all, be completely vulnerable and they'll still love you. It wasn't until the end that I understood why Gwyn and Dimple were friends. Gwyn treated Dimple poorly for most of the book (especially her claim that she knew about Indian culture because she had a Indian friend. Oh jeez), but at the end, she more than makes up for it.
Dimple is one of the most fantastic main characters I've ever read. She's awkward, confused and funny. I love that Dimple really comes alive when she takes pictures (her camera is named Chica Tikka which means third eye. Great name!) and when she's talking about her pictures. I could perfectly envision her snapping away at everything she saw and being able to see the beauty in every image. I could also really relate to Dimple's 'perfect life.' Gwyn tells Dimple that she would never understand what it means to come from a 'broken' family because her home life is perfect, her parents are in love. Gwyn and Karsh (the suitable/unsuitable boy) are discussing their single parent homes and while Karsh is more sympathetic to Dimple's point, Gwyn is not.
"'What do you mean? They don't hold hands, I've never seen them kiss. In fact, I'm not even sure how I got here, to tell the truth.' [Dimple]
-What's kissing and holding hands? said Gwyn almost snobbishly. That's a dime dozen. They wake up together every morning, they sleep together every night; they managed to cross an ocean together and not fall apart. And they adore you. That's pretty perfect and you're complaining? What's wrong with you? You could use all that love to go out and conquer the world!
I wasn't complaining. I was just trying to find my place in this conversation, but it was looking more and more like a sold-out show." (pg. 247) I get that. It seems weird to want to fit in by complaining about how much your life stinks, but I've felt that way before too. It's an uncomfortable feeling when everyone thinks your life is perfect and refuses to see that you might still be unhappy. Karsh is probably one of the best YA crushes ever. He's not perfect though since he sends so many mixed signals (half the time it was obvious that he had feelings for Dimple but then the other half of the time he was really into Gwyn). One of my favorite scenes is at the end between Karsh and Dimple, SO CUTE!
Born Confused is a priceless tale of friendship, tradition, culture, love and being seventeen. The story is a riot to read because Dimple can be very melodramatic and her parents can mix up some American phrases with quite amusing results. While the story can move very slowly and seem to be drifitng aimlessly, there are frequent witty observations and bursts of laughter. I would love to meet Dimple and Karsh (I could leave Gwyn) and just explore the Desai neighborhoods of NYC with them. I love that there are so many complex characters and storylines (like the one with Kavita, Dimple's cousin). I wish all the information about Indian culture and South Asian culture in general had been presented in a more easygoing/natural manner, but nevertheless I appreciated the information. You will not forget Dimple and her mixed-up and messy life. Highly, highly recommended.
Dimple is one of the most fantastic main characters I've ever read. She's awkward, confused and funny. I love that Dimple really comes alive when she takes pictures (her camera is named Chica Tikka which means third eye. Great name!) and when she's talking about her pictures. I could perfectly envision her snapping away at everything she saw and being able to see the beauty in every image. I could also really relate to Dimple's 'perfect life.' Gwyn tells Dimple that she would never understand what it means to come from a 'broken' family because her home life is perfect, her parents are in love. Gwyn and Karsh (the suitable/unsuitable boy) are discussing their single parent homes and while Karsh is more sympathetic to Dimple's point, Gwyn is not.
"'What do you mean? They don't hold hands, I've never seen them kiss. In fact, I'm not even sure how I got here, to tell the truth.' [Dimple]
-What's kissing and holding hands? said Gwyn almost snobbishly. That's a dime dozen. They wake up together every morning, they sleep together every night; they managed to cross an ocean together and not fall apart. And they adore you. That's pretty perfect and you're complaining? What's wrong with you? You could use all that love to go out and conquer the world!
I wasn't complaining. I was just trying to find my place in this conversation, but it was looking more and more like a sold-out show." (pg. 247) I get that. It seems weird to want to fit in by complaining about how much your life stinks, but I've felt that way before too. It's an uncomfortable feeling when everyone thinks your life is perfect and refuses to see that you might still be unhappy. Karsh is probably one of the best YA crushes ever. He's not perfect though since he sends so many mixed signals (half the time it was obvious that he had feelings for Dimple but then the other half of the time he was really into Gwyn). One of my favorite scenes is at the end between Karsh and Dimple, SO CUTE!
Born Confused is a priceless tale of friendship, tradition, culture, love and being seventeen. The story is a riot to read because Dimple can be very melodramatic and her parents can mix up some American phrases with quite amusing results. While the story can move very slowly and seem to be drifitng aimlessly, there are frequent witty observations and bursts of laughter. I would love to meet Dimple and Karsh (I could leave Gwyn) and just explore the Desai neighborhoods of NYC with them. I love that there are so many complex characters and storylines (like the one with Kavita, Dimple's cousin). I wish all the information about Indian culture and South Asian culture in general had been presented in a more easygoing/natural manner, but nevertheless I appreciated the information. You will not forget Dimple and her mixed-up and messy life. Highly, highly recommended.
mldavisreads's review against another edition
4.0
This book had a lot to offer- it was an interesting look at Indian culture, the characters were well developed, and the main character went through a journey of self-discovery. However it was just too long. I listened to it on audiobook, which was good because I got to hear the Indian words pronounced correctly and the characters clearly differentiated, but it was 12 discs! Most YA books I listen to are 6, so this was twice as long. I liked the story, but I think some of the detail in the middle could have been taken out.
samwlabb's review against another edition
3.0
Rating: 3.5 Stars
There were a lot of things I loved about this book, and some that frustrated me. It was quite a journey I took with Dimple. She learned a lot about who she was, and who she wanted to be. It was really lovely seeing her get to know her parents on a different level too, and watch the bond between her and them grow. Although I was furious at times with her best friend, Gwen, I was very happy with the way Hidier let that all work out. I thought the book could have used a bit of trim, as it dragged in some places, but overall, I enjoyed getting to know Dimple as she got to know herself.
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There were a lot of things I loved about this book, and some that frustrated me. It was quite a journey I took with Dimple. She learned a lot about who she was, and who she wanted to be. It was really lovely seeing her get to know her parents on a different level too, and watch the bond between her and them grow. Although I was furious at times with her best friend, Gwen, I was very happy with the way Hidier let that all work out. I thought the book could have used a bit of trim, as it dragged in some places, but overall, I enjoyed getting to know Dimple as she got to know herself.
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pyrrhicspondee's review against another edition
4.0
So this book was completely engrossing . . . once I got past the first 100 pages. I understand the need to establish the utter confusion of the protagonist before further unraveling her world, but I maintain this book needed to get going a good fifty pages sooner. Also, get this woman an editor who is not so shy with the red pen! Charming style, but after a bit it's hard to take the multi-paragraph digressions into hyper-specific, twee description of absolutely everything.
On a lighter note, new favorite word: bitcheswallah. Also: yaar.
I'd recommend Born Confused as long as you don't mind skimming over paragraphs at a time to get back to the (excellent) plot.
On a lighter note, new favorite word: bitcheswallah. Also: yaar.
I'd recommend Born Confused as long as you don't mind skimming over paragraphs at a time to get back to the (excellent) plot.
sputniksweetheart's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
One of the first Indian-American books I read (when I was in middle school). It was relatable and a good look into the ABCD community.
annietestin's review against another edition
adventurous
emotional
hopeful
reflective
medium-paced
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Content Warnings
Moderate: Grief
Minor: Homophobia and Transphobia