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He/She/They: How We Talk About Gender and Why It Matters by Schuyler Bailar

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duod3cima's review

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4.75

I really enjoyed this book! It's part memoir-ish and part guide on how to navigate situations related to being trans/trans rights. I appreciated the balance between hearing more about Schuyler and his journey/experiences while also getting great tips and scripts for how to navigate tough conversations and new situations. I also highly recommend listening to the audiobook, read by Schuyler, as him reading really made the reading/listening experience special!

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taniyi2000's review

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5.0

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rainbopagn's review

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hopeful informative medium-paced

4.75

This is a very informative beginning book for anyone who wants to be an ally or who wants to better understand gender identity and transgender topics. It is part memoir, part handbook and very approachable. It is well informed and uses both research and personal experience.

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felishacb's review against another edition

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5.0

Schuyler Bailar is a gift to humanity, and his ability to connect as an educator and advocate is astounding.

I've been a follower of his work on Instagram, and through this book, I learned more about his late teens and college years. Part biography, He/She/They is both a beginning primer for those who seek to learn more about creating an inclusive world for trans people (and all people) and an ongoing workshop for those who care about trans people. His style of including online feedback and audience questions adds a community feel to the work.

Bailar doesn't owe anyone education or details about his life; he doesn't owe anyone the patience I've seen him embody when responding to ignorance or outright hate speech. And we are lucky he offers it.

In this book, Bailar gives so much of himself and his story in order to help readers see the world-changing beauty of trans folks. This book is for allies, for queer and trans folks. If you have questions, this is a great place to start.

I highly recommend the audiobook, too.

Quotes:

Connection is the essence of our humanity itself.

You are welcome to be curious. But you must also remember that your curiosity doesn't mean that you deserve an answer.

Committing to including grief in my life means acceptance that growth is, after all, extremely painful, and it is also how I become all that I am supposed to be.

I did not exit the box of womanhood to jump into somebody else's box of manhood. I am here to be myself.

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lettuce_read's review against another edition

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5.0

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ngilbert's review

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5.0

He/She/They is an excellent introduction to gender, transness, and how we can all support the trans community. Because trans issues touch on such a broad front of subjects, there was quite a lot of ground for this book to cover — psychology, history, medicine, politics — and I think it managed that handily. The tone is personal, almost conversational, and is very effective for the delivery of the material. There are plenty of questions that trans people are asked, often inappropriately, which I think can be answered in this book instead.

I believe this is a book with a wide potential audience. Trans and queer people can read this, parents and educators of trans people can read this, people existing in our society which includes trans people in it can read this, and I believe all can finish it having gained something meaningful from the experience. I definitely recommend this book.

My thanks to Hachette Go and NetGalley for providing an advanced reader copy.

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