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emilymay_reads's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Medical content, Mass/school shootings, and Medical trauma
emzconklin's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Rape and Sexual assault
Minor: Racism
victoria_lyle's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Bullying, Gun violence, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, and Mass/school shootings
penofpossibilities's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Alcoholism, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Body shaming, Emotional abuse, Genocide, Gun violence, Hate crime, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, Xenophobia, Vomit, Mass/school shootings, and Suicide attempt
Moderate: Confinement and Forced institutionalization
Minor: Drug use, Homophobia, Blood, and Acephobia/Arophobia
Graphic: victim blaming, ptsd/trauma Minor: fireworksskudiklier's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Cursing, Death, Gun violence, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Violence, Blood, Medical content, Mass/school shootings, Medical trauma, and Suicide attempt
Moderate: Body shaming, Drug use, Gore, Hate crime, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, Sexual content, Vomit, and Grief
leahlovesloslibros's review against another edition
4.5
I especially loved how she shared encouraging sentiments, and spoke out for other victims of rape and sexual assault. She calls out the legal system, noting where it fails victims, and not only pushes for change, but actually makes suggestions as to where/how they can improve.
This book is important; it's relevant. I wish I could say it wasn't, because that would mean that there isn't such a glaring problem with rape and sexual assault in our country. If you can, read it. You will not be disappointed.
Graphic: Rape and Sexual assault
Moderate: Cursing, Misogyny, Racism, Medical content, and Grief
There are multiple detailed accounts of medical professionals performing a rape kit on a victim, including what happens during the kit and what it felt like for the victim.bdklug's review against another edition
5.0
I followed her case closely from when it first hit the news. She was known only as Emily Doe from the Stanford rape case at the time, but in her story, I saw so many stories that I knew. In her story, I saw myself.
I remember reading her victim impact statement on Buzzfeed in 2016 and being awed by her power, her conviction in her words. I followed along in disgust as anonymous commenters, and later, Judge Aaron Persky himself, sympathized with her rapist Brock Turner. They mourned for his “promising future,” while ignoring the lifelong trauma that had been forced upon Chanel.
In this book, Chanel finally gets to do what she was never able to during the trial: control her own narrative. She gives us an intimate look into the pain and fear she experienced and will continue to live with for the rest of her life. We see how her assault ripples through not only her life, but the lives of her loved ones. How in 20 minutes, everything can be turned upside-down, and you’re forced to reckon with a new life you never asked for.
She takes aim at the systems that failed her, and have failed and continue to fail victims of sexual violence. She derides the justice system, which prioritizes and values perpetrators over victims — if the perpetrator happens to be white, and rich. She takes aim at college campuses, like Stanford, who continue to fail to protect their students, more interested in preserving their image than addressing harm. At our cultural norms, which blame victims and allow violence against femmes to remain commonplace. And at Brock Turner directly, for refusing to take responsibility for what he did, and his family, for defending a rapist.
Despite all this, Chanel’s message is one of hope. There are survivors, millions of us, all over the world. The same way that their letters and messages of support buoyed Chanel, her book exists as a beacon for others. I am so thankful that it exists.
TW: rape, racism, murder
Graphic: Rape
Minor: Racism
lapis's review against another edition
4.5
Take care of yourself if you choose to read it, and if you are not in a place where you can read it, that's okay too.
Graphic: Sexual assault
Moderate: Panic attacks/disorders, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, and Blood
rumireads's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Medical content
Moderate: Body shaming, Gun violence, Hate crime, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Mass/school shootings, and Medical trauma
Minor: Eating disorder, Violence, and Police brutality