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My Friends by Fredrik Backman

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"Art is what we leave of ourselves in other people."

Very mixed feelings about this. Some lines and bits were really beautiful but overall the writing wasn't for me. Too many hyperboles, metaphors and puns in every sentence, it all felt quite over the top for me. 
Also not very politically sensitive (ableist language was very present amongst other things)
I loved the found family trope though!

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

This is my favorite author and probably always will be! This is such an interesting story though, very different from his others. It’s an in depth character study of friends and how their lives all changed one summer. 

This is juxtaposed with current times and the death of one of those friends, as well as the carrying on of the next generation of artists. For me, it was very, very emotional and I cried often. But it also was not as compelling as previous books and took me a long time to finish it. It’s probably my least favorite of his but that’s still saying a lot because his books are always incredible. 



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This book was a life-changing read. I don’t say that lightly. It was a joy, a sadness, a fear, an anger, and a relief to read.

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I think Backman’s writing is devastatingly beautiful. I love the depiction of young friendship and the way it can impact your life and direction. 

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I loved parts of this so much—the character development and their relationships, the importance of art—but felt like other parts of this were SO overwrought, even for this author. 

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🌊 My Friends by Fredrik Backman 🌊

MY RATING: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Few notice the three tiny figures on the pier in one of the world’s most famous paintings—but Louisa does. An artist herself, she's determined to uncover their story.
Decades earlier, four troubled teens—Joar, Ted, Ali, and a gifted but troubled young painter—find solace on that same pier. Their summer of friendship and dreams inspires a masterpiece.
Now, with the painting in her care, Louisa sets out on a journey to trace its origins. Along the way, she uncovers not only the story behind the art but also her own creative voice in this moving tale of friendship, loss, and the healing power of art.

Wow. No review could ever come close to capturing what this book was. This was one of the most beautiful pieces of writing I have ever read. I got about 50 pages in to the copy I had taken out from the library before I had to buy a copy so I could highlight parts of every single page. This book, in true Fredrik Backman style, was absolutely incredible. It was emotional, the characters felt so familiar and real, and the plot kept me invested throughout the entire book. This is definitely one of his best pieces of writing yet, and I was emotional the entire time. Before I finished, I had bought 2 additional copies for people I know, and think everyone needs to experience this story. 

Read this if you like: 
  • to cry 
  • emotional stories 
  • unexpected friendships 
  • existentialism 

Vibes: 🎨🖼️🌊🛤️📝😩

Song that matches the vibe: Modigliani by Lucy Dacus

Full review including content warnings on my StoryGraph. 

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Backman can write about childhood friendships like few other authors I've read. You get the same feeling as watching The Goonies or another movie that reminds you of summer days spent outside with your crew, doing nothing and everything at once. 

This book started out much darker than his other books have started, I think, and his voice with the characters was more judgey than his observations typically are. I noted that he referenced a body guard's weight as being 300 lbs EIGHT times during a scene. Unnecessary and uncreative. 

For me, the story picked up about one third in where I become more invested in the reveals that Backman is known for. He portrays love and commitment in really beautiful and complex ways with this story. 

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i'm so glad i loved this book because i've read previously from this author a book called "the answer is no" and i gave that one 2.5 stars but this one really did it for me!

the characters were all super distinctive and unique in their own ways and the humour between them was honestly top notch lol. i loved how sarcastic they were with each other cos that's the type of person i am.
they also reminded me a lot of the book "a little life" by hanya yanagihara. the unwavering friendship/lovership was so sweet. at times it was also a bit depressing but also moving at the same time.
i don't think i had a particular favourite character, i loved them all. louisa was a tad bit annoying sometimes but that's pretty much it lol. i did appreciate art though because he never cared for the material things and that's rare. ♡

the writing style was also phenomenal, it sucked me right in and i flew through the chapters. i loved how humorous it was and at other times thought provoking.

even though i wasn't too fussed about art, this plot line was still interesting to follow. just something about it... i wanted to know more. however, it did get a bit repetitive as i read more. the "tomorrow" thing also got old real quick lol.
fear of men talk was so valid though. 
this book got me wishing the artist and the others were alive irl, they felt so real and comforting! 

honestly if you love art or just want a thought provoking, a little sad but also sarcastic book to read - this one might be for you. i thoroughly enjoyed it and now i can't wait to read more from fredrik backman!

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