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Graphic: Deadnaming, Miscarriage, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Abortion, Pregnancy, Outing, Dysphoria
Moderate: Abortion
The main characters all have flaws but you can’t bring yourself to hate them.
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Infidelity, Toxic relationship, Pregnancy
Minor: Homophobia, Miscarriage, Transphobia, Grief, Abortion, Outing, Dysphoria
This is a character-driven book about how motherhood and pregnancy interact with transfemininity. The characters are compelling and frustrating in the ways they almost see the totality of their flaws and yet refuse to change - but that's part of what makes them compelling. In other words, they act like real people and are annoying in the way real people are - they're well-written. The timeline skips around from chapter to chapter, but it's not difficult to follow. The author wrote her characters to have personality and not to be Positive Trans Representation or aspirational, which is a breath of fresh air. Characters who are allowed the space to be messy or think nasty thoughts just feel more real.
It has an easily fixable problem - a transmasculinity-shaped blindspot. Trans men exist in the story, but for a book about "transness and pregnancy", no one seeks their perspective on the central issue. There IS a conversation with a trans man, but it's set in the past and it's about Reese's behaviour. Ames could have spoken to him again during the detransition/pregnancy/triad situation; even if it didn't change the outcome, it would have added to the story.
But other than that, it was a fun read! I'm glad my book club picked this, because I would never have read it of my own accord.
Graphic: Infidelity, Miscarriage, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Pregnancy
Moderate: Deadnaming, Emotional abuse, Infertility, Grief, Abortion, Abandonment, Dysphoria, Classism
Moderate: Sexual violence, Transphobia
Minor: Abortion
Graphic: Hate crime, Miscarriage, Outing
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Infertility, Infidelity, Physical abuse, Sexual content, Transphobia, Grief, Abortion, Suicide attempt, Pregnancy
Graphic: Transphobia
Moderate: Violence
Minor: Abortion, Suicide attempt
Graphic: Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Abortion, Pregnancy
Moderate: Suicide attempt
Highly recommend.
Graphic: Hate crime, Infidelity, Transphobia, Pregnancy
Moderate: Homophobia, Miscarriage, Racism, Suicide, Stalking, Abortion
Minor: Grief, Dysphoria
Graphic: Homophobia, Sexism, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Abortion, Suicide attempt, Pregnancy, Outing
Moderate: Body shaming, Emotional abuse, Infertility, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Violence
Minor: Racism, Self harm, Stalking