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Dear Wendy

Ann Zhao

4.01 AVERAGE

emotional hopeful informative inspiring lighthearted reflective fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

This is the most relatable a-spec story I've experienced as a Chinese American a-spec person. I'm so glad to have this book in my life.
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meibles's review

3.0
hopeful lighthearted fast-paced

nothing special but fun! reminded me how easy YA gay fiction is to read and get a little enjoyment from:)
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mone94's review

5.0
emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
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seeking_books's review

3.5
lighthearted relaxing medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: N/A
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated
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lzakari15's review

4.5
funny inspiring medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I wish I had more aroace friends to be in a QPR with 🚬😞

This is a really sweet story wrapped in (trust that I say this with love as someone who’s the same age as the author and 100% understands the value of this kind of book for kids) a whole bunch of gen z internet nonsense. Not necessarily an issue but if you’re an adult going into this just be warned that there’s lots of chapters that are just instagram comments and it all reads very young 
emotional funny lighthearted fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
emotional informative inspiring medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated
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eva333's review

4.5
funny lighthearted reflective relaxing medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Such a nice story about 2 aroace characters. For me, this isn't a earth shattering, mind changing book, but it's still a very enjoyable read. I really liked the discussions the characters had on topics like asexuality, aromanticism, but also gender, feminism and more. The characters themselves were very fun to read about and I really enjoyed the diversity withing the story. One thing in particular that stood out to me was the use of using pinyin at some moments when Sophie's parents were replying to her in Mandarin, and making it clear through the writing what they said without always using a direct translation. 

Another thing I really enjoyed was the storyline about how Jo struggles a lot with accepting their aromantic and asexual identity and the fear of being/ending up alone. It's a struggle I've had and I know a lot of other people (aspec and allo) have as well. It's also something I haven't seen discussed in stories with aspec rep a lot, at least, not in the way it's written about in this book. 

Probably just not for me. Everything felt a bit over explained (but I guess if you cont know all the terms then it can be helpful) and despite constantly advising other people to communicate, the characters seem very bad at communicating well.