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jwmcoaching's review
5.0
It might surprise you, but I loved this book! It has a lot of great viewpoints about alternative paths to true happiness. Burkeman travels the world to find out what makes people happy and successful and what doesn't. Each chapter is uniquely fascinating. There is much to learn from this book.
adheagles's review against another edition
5.0
I highly recommend this book, especially for individuals who struggle with trying to think with a positive attitude. This book helped me understand that I can create a fruitful future for myself without having to constantly keep an overly-happy, optimistic attitude towards everything. Even those who don't struggle with how they think, this book is an interesting read that covers elements within philosophy, psychology, religion, sociology, and even history. This is a book I'll find myself reading constantly throughout the rest of my life to remind myself that I can find happiness without optimism, but rather through tranquility.
averagecath's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced
3.5
clivemeister's review against another edition
4.0
I bought this book as a present for my wife, who would have no shame in admitting that she can't stand all the "positive thinking" malarkey. She read it, and didn't really enjoy it, finding that it had many of the same messages for how to be happy but without the "positive" sticker on the front. So I was curious as to what lay within...
And once I'd read it, I could see her point. Many of the conclusions that Mr Burkeman comes to are, indeed, those that you might read elsewhere, but without the same spin: you would read elsewhere of the benefits of mindfulness, of Stoicism, of self-awareness in many websites and books. The spin here, if there is one, is that you don't have to do these things with any view that they are designed to be positive affirmations. You can just do them because they seem to work. Plus, you get to poke fun at the wilder elements of the "positivity" crowd, which Mr Burkeman does very effectively in is re-telling tales of huge conference centres with crowds chanting empty slogans about "winning" or whatever it happens to be.
So in the end I rather liked this book. From my personal point of view, I'm becoming increasingly wary of the whole move to Stoicism, as I think it may entrench particular points of view that I don't subscribe to (in particular I fear it pushes people into accepting a bad status quo, rather than in pushing back against it). On the other hand, I'm all-in with mindfulness: there is clearly a bunch going on in our brains that isn't directly accessible to us, and the identification of ourselves with our stream-of-consciousness self-talk seems like a great candidate for why so many of us are so upset. Anything that tries to break us out of this is a good thing. Plus, the book got me watching Youtube videos of Eckhart Tolle, and the guy is like a little Yoda wearing clothes that escaped from the 1970s, sitting and smiling and blinking and not saying much, but when he does saying wise things. How much do I love him!
Three and a half stars, rounded up to four because of the Tolle bits.
And once I'd read it, I could see her point. Many of the conclusions that Mr Burkeman comes to are, indeed, those that you might read elsewhere, but without the same spin: you would read elsewhere of the benefits of mindfulness, of Stoicism, of self-awareness in many websites and books. The spin here, if there is one, is that you don't have to do these things with any view that they are designed to be positive affirmations. You can just do them because they seem to work. Plus, you get to poke fun at the wilder elements of the "positivity" crowd, which Mr Burkeman does very effectively in is re-telling tales of huge conference centres with crowds chanting empty slogans about "winning" or whatever it happens to be.
So in the end I rather liked this book. From my personal point of view, I'm becoming increasingly wary of the whole move to Stoicism, as I think it may entrench particular points of view that I don't subscribe to (in particular I fear it pushes people into accepting a bad status quo, rather than in pushing back against it). On the other hand, I'm all-in with mindfulness: there is clearly a bunch going on in our brains that isn't directly accessible to us, and the identification of ourselves with our stream-of-consciousness self-talk seems like a great candidate for why so many of us are so upset. Anything that tries to break us out of this is a good thing. Plus, the book got me watching Youtube videos of Eckhart Tolle, and the guy is like a little Yoda wearing clothes that escaped from the 1970s, sitting and smiling and blinking and not saying much, but when he does saying wise things. How much do I love him!
Three and a half stars, rounded up to four because of the Tolle bits.