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Estou feliz que minha mãe morreu by Jennette McCurdy

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This book was a wild ride from start to finish. My heart truly aches for Jeannette. And as someone who grew up watching iCarly, not knowing that she was going through such horrific things really makes you think about how much we don’t know about people. 

Such a powerful read that fully deserves all the attention it has been getting. 

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I'm always in incredible awe of authors who find a way to bare their souls, feelings, and realities so honestly in their memoirs, and this one is no exception. I grew up watching Jennette on iCarly and had always known about the allegations against The Creator she references in this book, but to hear her side of the story and everything else she went through in her personal life during that time that I used to watch her on TV and laugh along just hits so hard. She writes so unflinchingly honestly, so bluntly, and somehow still humorously at the same time. Every chapter she details a new or deeper layer of trauma whether it's from her childhood, her mother, her acting career, her eating disorders, her alcoholism, or her mental health struggles in a way that demands attention and doesn't shy away from the pain of it, and then she often closes the chapter with a funny one-liner related to the earlier narrative. The things she has experienced and gone through are horrible things that no person, let alone a child , should have to go through, but I admire her bravery, integrity, and determination in ensuring that her experience doesn't go unvoiced and that people out there, exploited child performers and victims of abusive mothers alike, can hear her story and relate to it and know that healing is possible. I am so supportive of Jennette in her writing and creative endeavors, I truly hope she finds peace and healing and creates things like this book that she can be proud of throughout the rest of her life, and that this book continues selling out everywhere and makes her more than corrupt-ass Nickelodeon's hush money ever could have offered her. I can now say that I am also glad Jennette's mom died.

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Jennette's raw voice in the audiobook just made this memoir/autobiography even more personal-- not just bc it's her, but bc of the honesty in her inflections and reactions. Highly recommend reading this. Definitely look into the many trigger warnings before reading. It's hard hitting. It called me out and was relatable for someone in recovery from eating disorders and parental abuse. It's not for the lighthearted. It's her way of coping with grief and calling to awareness of such abuse. I'm not sure what else it is but I'm truly grateful for Jennette McCurdy releasing this out into the world. Might not have been her intention to help others but it helped me become aware of trauma.

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Wow!! I’m still processing everything I just read. This book is raw, emotional, and it hits hard.

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I'm Glad My Mom Died is worth all of the hype it has received since its release. This isn't your typical gossipy, "highlight reel" celebrity memoir. McCurdy writes eloquently about the cruelty and manipulation of her mother throughout the first 21 years of her life. Descriptions of her mother's abuse are particularly heartbreaking due to Jennette's use of her past self's voice and child logic. Understanding how young Jennette justified her mother's abuse to herself as a form of love is simultaneously so genuine and so deeply upsetting.

Overall, this is a powerful and honest memoir of abuse and the pressures of child stardom. This book is touted as hilarious and certainly does feature some delightfully dry humor. However, be warned that this memoir is more devastatingly sad than anything else.

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