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4.24 AVERAGE
To connect to ourselves and all other human beings, we must cultivate vulnerability while rejecting perfectionism, which is not to be found in humanity. We are enough, and it’s time to show up, take risks and let ourselves be seen. At the end of this life, we will not regret what we have done, but will only regret what we had not done, but wished we had.
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http://thinkingwithdavid.com/2016/04/22/how-can-we-dare-greatly/
Full post at...
http://thinkingwithdavid.com/2016/04/22/how-can-we-dare-greatly/
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"There's no error without effort"
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Edit: just as good a second time around :)
This book is a game changer. I first read it when I was starting a position of leadership and was terrified for anyone I led to really get to know me for fear that they wouldn’t like what they saw. This book helped me to understand that my imperfections are a lovable part of me, and that my connections with others can’t have much depth if I don’t show up entirely, flaws and all— even with people I lead. It discusses both shame and vulnerability at length and helps the reader to understand the role they play in our lives.
This book is a game changer. I first read it when I was starting a position of leadership and was terrified for anyone I led to really get to know me for fear that they wouldn’t like what they saw. This book helped me to understand that my imperfections are a lovable part of me, and that my connections with others can’t have much depth if I don’t show up entirely, flaws and all— even with people I lead. It discusses both shame and vulnerability at length and helps the reader to understand the role they play in our lives.
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hopeful
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Really quite good - I think because I read it right after [b:Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience|58330567|Atlas of the Heart Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience|Brené Brown|https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1630947399l/58330567._SX50_.jpg|92741322] it felt less fresh, there certainly were some overlapping stories, for instance. Enjoyed it though, but more as a deep dive on one or two chapters from the other book than a book on its own right, even though I know it came first.
I found several concepts, ideas, and comparisons in this that made it worth my time, though I don't feel it was written in language that I trust. Making distinctions between guilt, shame, humiliation, and embarrassment looks immediately useful, as does differentiating between fitting in and belonging. Using the word "vulnerability" for emotional and cognitive openness messes with my complex of connotations. And again, I have a deep distrust of individuals who are "personal growth" speakers.
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Her Netflix special inspired me to pick up this book. It is a great companion piece to explore in greater detail what she talks about.
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