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Forever . . .

Judy Blume

3.37 AVERAGE


Overly trite and boring. Might have been revolutionary when it was published but there are better books about this topic now. Also, Ralph. ughhhhh

10/10 ⭐️ for portrayal of summer love, healthy relationships, and safe and accurate sex education. 0/10 ⭐️ for how many rights women have lost since 1975.

“Forever…” by Judy Blume

“Forever…” revolves around Katherine and Michael, two teenagers on the cusp of adulthood. From the moment they meet at Erica's party, there's an undeniable spark between them that draws readers into their enchanting romance.

As their relationship blossoms, we delve deeper into their lives, discovering Katherine's past infatuation and how Michael fills her heart and mind. However, their love faces a significant test when Michael expresses a desire for intimacy. This exploration of teenage pressures and expectations adds a poignant layer to the narrative.

Katherine's journey of self-discovery and empowerment is truly inspiring. When she decides to take charge of her own sexual health, embarking on a solo trip to New York for appointments, she shows immense courage and determination.

Upon settling down, Katherine receives the unexpected news that she is being sent to summer camp to assist in teaching tennis to children. The decision, unfortunately, is not hers but rather her father's, leaving Katherine deeply upset as she envisions being away from Michael for an extended period. As she shares this unwelcome revelation with Michael, her heart shatters even further upon learning that he, too, will be spending the summer in North Carolina, adding to their separation woes.

During the summer, Katherine and Michael engage in a steady exchange of letters, sharing every intricate detail of their lives. However, as Katherine spends more time at the camp, her attention shifts toward a new person named Theo, who happens to be a fellow camp counsellor. Unexpectedly, one night, after receiving distressing news about her grandpa, Katherine finds herself drawn to Theo and ends up kissing him.

Throughout her stay, Katherine and Theo grow close and form a meaningful connection. Meanwhile, Michael, still unaware of Katherine's feelings for Theo, surprises her with a visit out of the blue. She musters the courage to share the truth with him, confessing her mixed feelings. In turn, Michael admits to having been involved with other people during her absence, leading to the realization that their relationship cannot continue.

With both parties accepting the end of their relationship, they part ways, understanding that their forever has come to an end.

Later, it becomes evident that the two encounter each other at the mall, engaging in casual conversation. However, it is clear both have moved on. Yet, deep within her heart, Katherine acknowledges that there will always be a special place for Michael, and she cherishes every word and memory they shared, even as she is currently with Theo. After all, the memories of teenage love, especially the first ones, are unforgettable and irreplaceable, but not everything is always forever.

Just re-read this. Although Blume's talent for writing great dialogue and pacing the novel perfectly (slow enough for characters to develop but fast enough to keep anyone's interest), I couldn't get past the dated stuff. The whole Planned Parenthood sequence being solely about preventing pregnancy seems completely outdated. And the linear style of dating also seems completely quaint. We weren't doing that when I was in high school, let alone now.

Kindle

My first Libby audiobook. Support your local libraries!!

I read this my Jr year of High school. I remember the controversy over it. If you wanted to check it out you had to get it from the library. For our age group (late teens) we had witnessed worse things on TV or in movies, plenty of teens this age had already "done the deed".
medium-paced

Not quite as scandalous now that I'm in my 40s...

The story is cute enough but it feels like nothing ever really happens which I guess was the point?