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challenging emotional hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

5.0

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5.0

Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us, or we find it not. —Ralph Waldo Emerson

This book was not what I expected at all. “Maybe You Should Talk to Someone” reads like a memoir of therapy, written by a therapist named Lori Gottlieb. 56 highlights on my Kindle...full of insights & life lessons to take away. It's an inside look at what therapists & patients are thinking.

“Therapy is about understanding the self that you are. But part of getting to know yourself is to unknow yourself—to let go of the limiting stories you’ve told yourself about who you are so that you aren’t trapped by them, so you can live your life and not the story you’ve been telling yourself about your life.”

I thought it was really well written, relatable, compassionate & non judge-mental. You’ll gain insights from the basic theories of psychology that Gottlieb has seamlessly woven throughout the book. But even more, you’ll grow in self awareness.

“We can’t have change without loss, which is why so often people say they want change but nonetheless stay exactly the same.”

As you step inside Lori’s office, you explore the lives of others; their fears, hopes, disasters & triumphs...and, you'll learn more about your own. The sessions with Julie & John are totally heart-wrenching! Get your Kleenex ready. I haven’t cried like this (while reading a book) in a long time. I also loved the message within the story of Rita & I want my Dad to read this part because he’s still having a hard time aging alone without Denise.

“...every decision we make is based on two things: fear and love. Therapy strives to teach you how to tell the two apart.”

“...even in the best possible relationship, you’re going to get hurt sometimes, and no matter how much you love somebody, you will at times hurt that person, not because you want to, but because you’re human.”

I also love how she describes her own experience looking for a therapist & going to therapy herself. Lori doesn’t shy away from the real emotions that go along with that & the vulnerability of asking for help. Such a refreshing insight. I need a Wendell in my life!

“People wanted a speedy solution to their problems, but what if their moods had been driven down in the first place by the hurried pace of their lives?” (Sooooo much this!)

Overall, I thought this book was a fantastic take on life & what it means to be human. It has made me pause & think differently about my interactions with people from every part of my life. A highly recommended & emotional read of healing & hope. Basically, I couldn’t put this book down! Enjoy!

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[2019] This book falls smack dab in the middle of my wheelhouse: human behavior, psychology, memoir, and a sense of humor. A book about being a therapist and being in therapy? I’m all in! Light and readable, without being fluffy, I was engaged the whole way through all 400 pages. The author deftly weaves together her experiences with her own patients, her own personal story and her own growth working with her own therapist, as well as some of the basic principles, techniques, and lingo of modern psychotherapy. Totally up my alley, I was really looking forward to reading it and it didn’t disappoint.

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This book is like one huge therapy session. I know people say this for most books, but it is truly accurate here. Very beautiful and emotionally intelligent book.

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emotional informative inspiring

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emotional inspiring reflective fast-paced

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fast-paced

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5.0

Such a good read - loved the author’s easy reading writing style and how she narrated her story while outlining some key aspects of therapy that make you reflect on your own life. Loved the introspective nature of this book!