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A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara

139 reviews

hamletslover's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional mysterious reflective sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Abandonment, Addiction, Body shaming, Child abuse, Child death, Confinement, Death, Death of parent, Bullying, Car accident, Infidelity, Suicide attempt, Toxic relationship, Adult/minor relationship, Chronic illness, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Gore, Grief, Kidnapping, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Medical content, Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Toxic friendship, Fire/Fire injury, Forced institutionalization, Injury/Injury detail, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Terminal illness, and Violence

liliandra's review against another edition

dark emotional inspiring reflective sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

Trigger Warnings:
Abuse
Drug Use
Harassment
Child Abuse
Suicide
Self Harm
Racial Slurs
Racism
Homophobia
Misscommunication
Forced Prostitution
Rape
Beating
Pedophilia

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Ableism, Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Biphobia, Blood, Infidelity, Injury/Injury detail, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Suicide attempt, Toxic relationship, Toxic friendship, Violence, Alcohol, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Religious bigotry, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Body horror, Body shaming, Bullying, Car accident, Child abuse, Child death, Chronic illness, Cultural appropriation, Cursing, Death, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Drug abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Gaslighting, and Grief

cstein's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful informative inspiring mysterious reflective sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

A Little Life was difficult to put down, difficult to dream about, difficult not to dwell on for hours in the middle of the night. Yanagihara's respectful, relatively sparse depictions of a laundry list of traumas made this book tolerable, while her depictions of human goodness and joy made this book hopeful and beautiful. Particularly impressive were the author's careful detailing of fictional artworks, fictional movies, fictional law cases, fictional renovations, etc. An engrossing and extraordinary feat.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Acephobia/Arophobia, Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Ableism, Blood, Body horror, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Medical content, Suicide attempt, Torture, Toxic relationship, Trafficking, and Violence

Moderate: Homophobia, Kidnapping, Panic attacks/disorders, Stalking, Terminal illness, Toxic friendship, Abandonment, Body shaming, Bullying, Drug abuse, Car accident, Confinement, Cursing, Death, Death of parent, Dementia, Infidelity, and Vomit

Minor: Racism, Alcoholism, Cancer, Racial slurs, Alcohol, and Drug use

mal__ori's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body shaming, Cancer, Car accident, Dementia, Drug abuse, Drug use, Dysphoria, Eating disorder, Fire/Fire injury, Infidelity, Injury/Injury detail, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual content, Suicide attempt, Abandonment, Adult/minor relationship, Alcohol, Biphobia, Body horror, Bullying, Cursing, Medical trauma, Panic attacks/disorders, Torture, Toxic friendship, Classism, Confinement, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Ableism, Addiction, Child abuse, Child death, Chronic illness, Death of parent, Death, Domestic abuse, Medical content, Gore, Grief, Pedophilia, Sexual harassment, Murder, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Violence, and Vomit

alomie's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This book is a really rough read, it took me a long time to read and I needed to take lots of breaks as it was relentlessly emotional, a kick to the gut, as bad as things are they just get worse.

I can't really recommend this book to anyone and I think this is a super dangerous book to be all over booktube/booktok. Before you read this please do check the trigger warnings as the descriptions are graphic, slow and detailed. 

I found this harrowing to read, and deeply upsetting. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Chronic illness, Death, Grief, Medical trauma, Drug use, Dysphoria, Forced institutionalization, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Domestic abuse, Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Death of parent, Emotional abuse, Suicide attempt, Violence, Vomit, Blood, Bullying, Cancer, Car accident, Drug abuse, Eating disorder, Gaslighting, Injury/Injury detail, Medical content, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Body horror, Infidelity, Self harm, Body shaming, Child abuse, and Racism

jocedonahue's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Violence, Blood, Chronic illness, Eating disorder, Self harm, Bullying, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Adult/minor relationship, Sexual content, Ableism, Addiction, Body horror, Terminal illness, Body shaming, Car accident, Child death, Child abuse, Drug use, Dysphoria, Death, Drug abuse, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, Trafficking, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Grief, Infidelity, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, and Rape

annabunce's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional mysterious reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

This book is so sad and so well written and 1800 pages is ridiculous but I don't think anything less than 1400 would have sufficed to actually tell the story in a way that would have been respectful. But I would only recommend this book in RARE occasions. Those occasions being (but not limited to):

1) Someone you know and love is refusing to seek help for trauma and you don't understand

2) If you are a therapist trying to understand trauma (I'd actually strongly recommend this book if that was the case)

3) If you need to have a good cry and think it'll take you 1800 pages to do it

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Body horror, Body shaming, Death, Eating disorder, Gaslighting, Stalking, Suicide, Blood, Car accident, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Domestic abuse, Suicidal thoughts, Forced institutionalization, Medical trauma, Pedophilia, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Torture, Toxic relationship, Gore, Injury/Injury detail, Medical content, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Suicide attempt, Vomit, Violence, Dysphoria, Rape, Sexual violence, Trafficking, Emotional abuse, Fire/Fire injury, and Grief

Moderate: Addiction, Drug use, Ableism, Drug abuse, and Infidelity

Minor: Abandonment and Biphobia

edm's review against another edition

dark sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

1.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Rape, Self harm, Suicide attempt, Suicidal thoughts, Injury/Injury detail, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Car accident, Body horror, Death, Homophobia, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, Toxic friendship, Toxic relationship, Violence, Child abuse, Physical abuse, and Emotional abuse

Moderate: Infidelity

jacks_beloved's review against another edition

dark emotional sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

This book was a long, long journey (1st April- 18th May, 2022), the degrees of pain it made me experience was incomparable, but in the end, it was worth it. I can clearly see why 'A Little Life' is called a modern classic because goddamnit. In the beginning, it seemed to drag on forever, the writing was absolutely meh, the only notable aspects were the characters of Jude and Willem, but Hanya Yanagihara took the inital ordinariness and created something so incredibly extraordinary in the latter half. (*SPOILER-  Their romance sent butterflies flying through my stomach and Willem's death shattered my heart to the extent that it can never be whole again. The worst part about that was the details, like I genuinely did NOT want to learn how the only thing that made me believe in humanity was crushed from existence. I had to read the part following that at midnight, when I'm practically completely numb otherwise, but I cried twice then too. Now, it's a constant thorn in my side. I'll be going about my day and the sheer reality of Jude and Willem's story comes to mind and it kills me a little every time. I don't know how Jude survived those three years because I wanted to follow after Willem. *) 
This book became a sort of unconventional home for me, naturally, since I spent so long with it. The familiarity of Jude and Willem became my comfort and I can't understand how I'm expected to live normally henceforth. I connect with them on a level it's impossible for even me to comprehend. They are integrated into my very soul. I would sacrifice myself to save them. 
I don't think I'll ever, in my life, pick up this book again because it'll break everything in me forever. This was raw, real, memorable, too damn traumatic to be out on the loose in this world. I've said a lot and still the second-out sufferage this book handed to me is explicable. I could never recommend this to someone because I would never want anyone to go through what I did, but it was definitely a masterpiece I'll always cherish. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Car accident, Child abuse, Death, Grief, Physical abuse, Pedophilia, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Suicide attempt, Adult/minor relationship, Toxic relationship, and Body horror

Moderate: Abandonment, Body horror, Panic attacks/disorders, Medical trauma, Injury/Injury detail, Eating disorder, Confinement, Bullying, and Body shaming

Minor: Infidelity and Outing

Extremely explicit so do not read if you're even remotely triggered by any of these.

ginadapooh's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Bullying, Chronic illness, Abandonment, Grief, Homophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Kidnapping, Suicide, Suicide attempt, Vomit, Adult/minor relationship, Addiction, Drug use, Eating disorder, Medical content, Self harm, Sexual assault, Alcohol, Blood, Body horror, Confinement, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Rape, Child abuse, Death, Drug abuse, Emotional abuse, Gore, Cursing, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, Infidelity, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Panic attacks/disorders, Racial slurs, Toxic friendship, and Toxic relationship