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Like Water for Chocolate by Laura Esquivel

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Plot or Character Driven: Plot
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

The prose in this book is beautiful, truly. I just felt very complicated things about Tita. Her decisions, and sometimes her lack thereof of them, sometimes made it hard to sympathize with her. Though, I understood where her characterization ultimately served to convey the message that sometimes the heart just wants what it wants, despite logic and reason. I thought the pacing of the book was really interesting and I loved the way that Tita’s cooking was quite literally magical. I just wish I found Tita, and especially Pedro, more likable. 

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I adore magical realism; I would say it was the first great literary love of my adult life. I am happy to slip into the suspension of disbelief required and allow myself to be cocooned by the fantastic; to experience characters as archetypes and motifs who are driven by fate rather than as drivers of their own narratives. I  enjoy this... To a point.

For these reasons, Like Water For Chocolate has been on my to-read list for over a decade. Maybe this long lead time resulted in my expectations being too high, because I was very disappointed in this novel.

I loved the fairytale-like lyricism and outlandish surrealism of the grand magical moments. I didn't even mind the thinness of the novel's premise regarding the tyrannical monstrosity of Mama Elena, the archetypal wicked witch/evil stepmother despite being the biological parent of Tita, the MC. Their relationship and her cruelty she inflicted on her family was the heart of the novel for me, and I think that the novel really went off the rails after
her death
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What I struggled with was the limpness of Tita's character, and the febrile hollowness of the love story between her and Pedro. While the passivity of Tita serves the plot, and is required for the emotional outbursts of magic in her cooking to carry any weight, it makes her incapable of action to the point of unlikeability. 

Similarly, while the romance between her and Pedro is heightened and inflamed, at no point are we shown *why* these two are in love with each other beyond their unresolved physical attraction towards each other. Pedro's character is weak and spineless as several other characters make a point of lampshading, and there is no explanation as to why Tita would remain in love with him once this weakness is revealed to her. 

The scene in which their love is
finally consummated reads more like a rape scene than passionate lovemaking.
It really soured the rest of the book for me as well as Tita ultimately deciding to
choose Pedro over John (although I recognise that John was also a skeezy and duplicitous character who was essentially grooming a vulnerable teenager).


Although I was grateful that the book was quite short, I found the huge time jump annoying and gratuitous. I also didn't understand what the resolution of this book was trying to say. Was it a happy ending, or a tragedy? Is the power of true love inevitable? Or was it just a rushed resolution that shoehorned in the Chekhov's gun of an extended proverb that was introduced for no reason halfway through the book? (This. It was this.)

In summary, I do not understand why this is such a lauded example of the magical realism genre from a female Latinx perspective when Isabel Allende is RIGHT THERE.

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I loved the way the recipes drove the story from the heart of the home - the kitchen. I truly felt like I was reading a gossipy magazine as I took in the stories of Tita and the surrounding cast of characters. 

This book is short and keeps you coming back for more, wondering what Tita will cook up next. 

While I did really enjoy this, I really struggled with the unloveable characters.
I kept hoping they would learn or do better and change, but the moment never came, not even in the end. Tita is a spineless simp with bad taste in men and Pedro isn't worth the ingredients used to cook his meals.
Despite that, I still did enjoy myself with the wild tales that came out of this one!

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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emotional mysterious fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

What in the harlequin-Jackie-Collins-romance?!? I read this because my son is about to start reading it in English class and as much as I liked the writing and structure of the book, I don’t think it is appropriate for 14-year-olds. That being said, it is an easy read and I enjoyed the structure. I can’t say I enjoyed the story as a whole, but I liked the end and the character development of Tita.

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Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Loveable characters: Complicated

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Read more like a movie than a book. Heartwarming and interesting, though weird. 

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