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Like Water for Chocolate by Laura Esquivel

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Not really sure how to rate this book because it's very much out of my usual (picked it up for a book club). I was entertained by the food descriptions and their magical effects on people, and it was kind of just a wild ride. It was written in the 80s so there are several things that I find questionable now, like
was their first time together really consensual
and
there were definitely a few slut shaming and fat shaming comments
and
if I read it correctly John took in a girl probably less than half his age and fell in love/proposed while she was a minor
. I can't say I was super happy with the ending either but I did have a good time reading like 75-80% of the book.

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I adore magical realism; I would say it was the first great literary love of my adult life. I am happy to slip into the suspension of disbelief required and allow myself to be cocooned by the fantastic; to experience characters as archetypes and motifs who are driven by fate rather than as drivers of their own narratives. I  enjoy this... To a point.

For these reasons, Like Water For Chocolate has been on my to-read list for over a decade. Maybe this long lead time resulted in my expectations being too high, because I was very disappointed in this novel.

I loved the fairytale-like lyricism and outlandish surrealism of the grand magical moments. I didn't even mind the thinness of the novel's premise regarding the tyrannical monstrosity of Mama Elena, the archetypal wicked witch/evil stepmother despite being the biological parent of Tita, the MC. Their relationship and her cruelty she inflicted on her family was the heart of the novel for me, and I think that the novel really went off the rails after
her death
.

What I struggled with was the limpness of Tita's character, and the febrile hollowness of the love story between her and Pedro. While the passivity of Tita serves the plot, and is required for the emotional outbursts of magic in her cooking to carry any weight, it makes her incapable of action to the point of unlikeability. 

Similarly, while the romance between her and Pedro is heightened and inflamed, at no point are we shown *why* these two are in love with each other beyond their unresolved physical attraction towards each other. Pedro's character is weak and spineless as several other characters make a point of lampshading, and there is no explanation as to why Tita would remain in love with him once this weakness is revealed to her. 

The scene in which their love is
finally consummated reads more like a rape scene than passionate lovemaking.
It really soured the rest of the book for me as well as Tita ultimately deciding to
choose Pedro over John (although I recognise that John was also a skeezy and duplicitous character who was essentially grooming a vulnerable teenager).


Although I was grateful that the book was quite short, I found the huge time jump annoying and gratuitous. I also didn't understand what the resolution of this book was trying to say. Was it a happy ending, or a tragedy? Is the power of true love inevitable? Or was it just a rushed resolution that shoehorned in the Chekhov's gun of an extended proverb that was introduced for no reason halfway through the book? (This. It was this.)

In summary, I do not understand why this is such a lauded example of the magical realism genre from a female Latinx perspective when Isabel Allende is RIGHT THERE.

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Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Matriarca egoísta y controladora gobierna sobre sus 3 hijas a extremos, con lujo de violencia física y mental.
Tita, la menor, está destinada a cuidar de ella por el resto de su vida. Pero Tita quiere casarse con Pedro.

Creando problemas innecesarios, la matriarca Elena, hace a todos miserables.

El uso de la "magia" con la comida y las emociones es muy interesante.

Es un libro muy entretenido, pero las decisiones de los personajes lo vuelven frustrante en ratos. Me alegra haberlo leído, lo disfruté, pero no lo volvería a leer.

Al no ser una trama completamente linear (muchos recuerdos y flashbacks) es un poco dificil ver el objetivo o la meta de los personajes en un determinado punto.

Los personajes tienen sus fallas, de más incluso. Tal vez faltó verlos más tiempo resaltando sus lados positivos, desarrollando sus personalidades, para así encariñarse con ellos realmente.

El único personaje con el que pude encariñarme fue
John. Honestamente, Tita debió haberlo escogido a él. La trataba bien, tenía su casa, le había dedicado tiempo y paciencia infinita, sin miedo de qué pensaran los demás. Todo lo contrario a Pedro. Pedro era un celoso inmadura y cobarde por el que no valía la pena suicidarse


Casi todos los trigger warnings fueron moderados o menores (se cuentan con metáforas o de paso en una o dos oraciones), excepto la
fatphobia. Tanto y con tanto desprecio que hace pensar si la autora comparte el mismo sentimiento

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5.0
emotional sad tense medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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emotional lighthearted mysterious medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

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dark mysterious sad tense medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

Me gustó este libro bastante. La prosa era muy buena, aunque el argumento en sí fue un poco…. básico, digamos. Me gustaron mucho los mementos de realismo mágico, habían muchos, aunque estaban muy espaciado, lo cual creo que ayudó a hacer que sintiera como realismo mágico efectivo: no sucedió demasiado que llegara a molestar ni que las situaciones parecieran demasiado ridículas (aunque sí, muchas de ellas lo eran), sino que cuando sí sucedieron esos momentos, te sorprendieron y, en algunos casos, te hicieron reír (me dio mucha risa la parte de «los tamales enojados»).
Quiero empezar con lo obvio: La Mamá Elena es la villana principal de este cuento. Es una madre egoísta, narcisista, y abusiva. A causa de ella, dos de sus tres hijas tuvieron que pasar su adultez en desprecio y miseria, también destruyó la relación entre las hermanas. Me parecía interesante ver el desarrollo de Rosaura, y cómo fue convirtiéndose en su madre. Igual de egoísta, igual de narcisista y abusiva
(a su hija Esperanza).
Al principio, quería estar a favor de ella, porque me doy cuenta que todos en la situación no eran nada más que peones en la esquema de Elena. Pero poco a poco, o es que reveló su carácter auténtico, o es que le ganó el rencor. Como sea, se convirtió igual de malvada como su madre,
y su muerte me hizo casi tan feliz como la de Elena.

Para terminar, quiero notar que este libro tiene momentos muy… sensuales, digamos. Más de una vez, las personas se ponen cachondas después de comer la comida de Tita (la comida de Tita literally made Gertudis’ pussy throb).
La escena final es en la que Tita y Pedro tienen sexo como pareja pública e inmediatamente después de llegar al orgasmo, Pedro se muere?????? Me morí de risa. Y después Elena se suicida se mata comiéndose fósforo y literalmente calentándose con memorias hot de su relación con Pedro hasta prenderse llamas??? Guat de fac. 


¿Que fue creativo? Sí. ¿Que fue ridículo y un poco perturbador? También que sí. ¿Que si me gustó este libro? Sí. ¿Que me lo voy a guardar? Quizás. ¿Que lo recomiendo? Sí, sin duda.

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