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Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

How easy to be dead. How lucky to be alive, even for just one day.

"The Wedding People" by Alison Espach is a great summer read for people who don't want a typical summer read. It was nothing like I expected it to be, but I found myself pleasantly surprised. Phoebe, our protagonist was immediately likeable to me and I could see myself in her in so many ways. I also really enjoyed Alison Espachs writing style; it pulls you into the story right from the jump and always made me want to keep reading. There were some moments where I genuinely had to laugh out loud and there were lots of moments that made me smile, probably because the characters were so incredibly likeable. 
However, something that really bothered me was the depiction of depression in "The Wedding People". Depression is something incredibly complex and the protagonists overnight change from suicidal to pretty much perfectly okay may be something that could potentially happen, but in most cases it's very far from reality. I liked the overall hopeful tone and message of the book, but Phoebe's "healing journey" felt extremely rushed and fake after the first quarter of the book. Her initial struggles kind of felt like a second priority then and while I enjoyed the romance plot and the themes of loyalty and friendship I just wished there would've been more room left for Phoebe to recognize that just because she's doing better, her depression hasn't magically disappeared. 
But overall, I have to say that I had a good time reading "The Wedding People" and I think the characters are going to stick with me for some time. 

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c_moore6's review against another edition

DID NOT FINISH: 51%

I liked the beginning of this book. The story, main characters, and setting drew me in. However, the writing became very choppy as the book went on. The book definitely could’ve used more editing because some scenes and pages were written very well while others were written poorly (repetitive sentence structure and word choice).

I also felt the characters were rushed and didn’t have much depth to them.

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes

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What an amazing book. It felt so human, so real. 
It felt like it had many different parts: At first, it's mysterious. Then, it's heartbreaking (this part specifically was incredibly done, it deeply touched me). After that, it changes and it becomes more curious, hopeful and you aren't sure where it's going. You're even afraid of where it could go. But it has a nice ending where everything strangely works out. 
Through it all, it's full of beautiful, interesting glimpses of what being human is like, of what connecting with others is.
I loved it.

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Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

really enjoyed getting to know each character and seeing their relationships with Phoebe develop. plot was unlike anything i’ve read before which made it more interesting, but i did find it to be slow at points.

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wall0533's review against another edition

DID NOT FINISH

miscarriage, fertility issues

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Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

This is my favorite book of 2025 so far. It's worth noting that I was worried this story would be too depressing for me since it involves suicidal ideation at the beginning; it's certainly heavy material, and if that feels like it would be triggering, it might be best to skip this book. In my reading I found the frankness with which characters discuss struggling severely with mental health to be refreshing, in that they shed a lot of the stigma that exists around depression. Any heavy material throughout was handled with sensitivity, and the focus ends up being on catharsis, feeling those experiences honestly, recovering, and finding humor, hope, and belonging in unexpected places.

The hopeful tone of the book kicks in pretty early on, when Phoebe discovers how an abrupt shift in surroundings, priorities, and people can provide the jolt needed to break out of a depression, and that forging new relationships can bring clarity to the root causes of hopelessness in old relationships. And despite all of the heavy topics, I found myself laughing aloud quite a bit. The chemistry and longing between certain characters was subtle yet magnetic, the quippy conversations were so satisfying and clever that I wanted to be there to partake, and the whole premise of starting fresh in every way was a great escape.

Helen Laser's audiobook narration was also phenomenal—she brings the perfect tone and sass to Espach's dialogue. At one point when a character was flossing and talking at the same time, it genuinely sounded like she was flossing haha. 10/10. Didn't want it to end.

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