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The Eyes Are the Best Part by Monika Kim

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tales_told_in_gold's review against another edition

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dark emotional fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

Who would’ve thought I’d ever root for a cannibal? Not me! 

The way this novel made me feel like such a fly on the wall, staring at the lives of Ji-won and her mother and sister as they struggled to deal with the loss of their husband / father through sudden abandonment. Even the seemingly dull aspects of their living were made fascinating by the constant tension underlying their interactions with one another.  

This is more than just a story of a young woman with a sick hunger for eyeballs.. it’s a look into generational trauma and grief through the Korean-American perspective. It’s about learning how to combat against oppression from white supremacy. It’s about someone losing their mind to the downsides of life, despite being the cause of some. 

Now admittedly there are some plot holes throughout, especially in the ending, but if you’re willing to suspend disbelief then “eye” gotta say.. you’ll love this revengeful tale! 

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morv's review against another edition

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mysterious sad tense medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5


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anjnryn's review against another edition

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dark emotional mysterious reflective sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

A wonderfully weird story about a daughter dealing with the way her mother processes a spousal separation… with a bit of true crime! 

I loved this book—from the Korean American perspective, the feminist themes, the brief but notable queerness, and of course the wild dark side of our protagonist.

Monika Kim does an excellent job of weaving a number of different genres and topics that keep you glued to the page, hungry for what happens next. I went through so many emotions reading this: sadness, sympathy, anger, excitement, and nervousness probably were the most prominent. My biggest qualm is with the protagonist’s reason for her actions (revealed near the end) but it wasn’t enough to take away even a whole 0.25 stars. 

There is a lot to reflect on with our main character and the cultural and societal reasons why she acts the way she does. That said, the differences between her, her sister, and her mother are pretty striking and interesting to analyze. The familial dynamics of these women are pivotal to understanding Ji-won and extremely well-written.

I disagree with other reviewers that the main male characters—George and Geoffrey—are too cartoonish. As a woman who frequents feminist spaces, I’ve experienced characters like both these men and thought they were pretty spot-on with their actions and descriptions. We are reading about an unhinged teenager in a horror fiction… getting caught up with the specifics of how realistic the men are seems… ironic. 

I would love to see a sequel with Appa, with the way the ending was, but this was a juicy tale on its own that I will not be forgetting soon!

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catphantasma's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging dark mysterious reflective tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25


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green_with_3nvy's review against another edition

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dark medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

2.0


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callme_tippy's review against another edition

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adventurous dark emotional reflective tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This book was disgusting in all the best ways. 

I enjoy books with unhinged women so I had high hopes for this one and it did not disappoint. 

This was a light exploration of misogyny, anger, hatred, responsibility, and family dynamics. 

Does this book have some cliches that I normally roll my eyes at? Yes. 
Is it the most amazing writing ever? No. 
Did I still every second of this weird ride? Absolutely! 

Would recommend! 


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danimacuk's review against another edition

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dark tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25


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zweavesandreads's review

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dark mysterious tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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emilypoche's review against another edition

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dark tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Loveable characters? No

4.0

I love a horror book that is unashamed in its gross imagery. I love one that revels in disgusting, gory, squelching imagery that turns the stomach and creates skin-crawling, vivid imagery that lingers long after the book binding is closed. Kim’s greatest triumph in The Eyes Are The Best Part is how the images of violence, nightmares, body horror and revenge are rendered in such meticulous, bold detail. 

The story of Ji-Won as she navigates a downward spiral starting with her father walking out is fascinating. Her character did have some passing similarities to Gone Girl’s Amy; scheming, calculating, murderous, and completely under estimated. Ji-Won is however compelled by the rage and disgust that comes with being fetishized, racially profiled, and disrespected. The anger that she feels is so palpable to the reader that despite all of the unspeakable things she’s willing to do, there’s still something that is sympathie about her. 

The thing that kept this from being a 5 for me was that the author seems not to trust the reader to pick out the misogyny and sexism and fetishization of the men in the story. Characters other than the protagonist, Ji-Won, are cartoonishly evil and so heavy handed. At times it just felt like with all of the other finesse the author uses that it just felt out of place to have the male chapters like glaring ‘I AM BAD’ signs. 

The beginning of the story was somewhat slow, but it built to a fever pitch by the end of the story. I felt like it had a very classic horror story pacing, which creates a normal scenario and then slowly edges it towards the uncanny and terrifying until it reaches a point of no return. I would just want other readers to know that despite a more slow pace in the beginning, the pacing does pick up. 

For me this was a great 4/5. I love a gruesome female rage centered horror story, and this is a great addition.

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mylordbagofrice's review

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dark sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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