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The Hate Project by Kris Ripper

bookstosoothethesoul's review against another edition

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4.0

Oooh okay I really enjoyed this one!
I kept highlighting lines because they were so funny! I love books that are funny in the prose and Oscar's head was a very funny place to be (which is good cause it's single pov).
I didn't super enjoy the fact that Oscar was a jerk to Jack and them spent forever to give him a lackluster apology (sometimes the grouchiness goes to far into asshole territory).
The sex was hot though and I loved getting to know Jack more.

pn_hinton's review against another edition

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4.0

I received a free e-ARC for an honest review

This was a fairly enjoyable story. I enjoyed that both of them were grumpy as opposed to the typical combination of one being grumpy and one being sunshine. These two men were just cranky and what had initially started out as a "Frenemies with Benefits" grew first to a employer/employee relationship and then more. It was a slow burn in that regard since they had sex fairly early on and I did appreciate that sot of relationship in reverse approach.

That said there were some moments where seeing thing from Oscar's point of view became tedious. I understand that he had anxiety and he admitted that honestly throughout his narration and, from my limited knowledge of that, it seemed accurate enough. Still, there were a few moments that left you feeling frustrated, even with knowing that. It would have been nice to see things from Jack's point of view occasionally, even if it was every few chapters or so.

I did appreciate how their friends didn't expect Oscar to be fixed or okay. In fact, they were present and supportive without being overly smothering. And they did respect his wishes when he wanted to be left alone, and periodically checked in on him just to make sure he was okay. It was also nice to see how, even when he was being super grumpy, you could see when Jack was supportive of him and the progress he made with his anxiety.

This was an HFN ending, which honestly seemed more realistic based on how the story started. They were still happy with each other and the way their relationship worked, and their friends were supportive. of it. I would recommend this book if you're looking for a M/M with two grumps that ends realistically. It's not what I would call a warm hug but it is still a sweet book.

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lindaunconventionalbookworms's review against another edition

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4.0

*I received a free copy of The Hate Project. This has in no way influenced my voluntary review which is honest and unbiased.*

I had no idea what this book was about when I clicked on it - but it was definitely my kind of book. Oscar, Jack, and all their friends were the kind of family that everyone should have. Oscar with his anxiety, but definitely some tools to deal with things, at least most of the time, is the protagonist. And Jack is the object of his... hate? attraction? love? friendship? it could go either way.

agmaynard's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

Excellent!  Annoyed by one another acquaintances hook up, then Jack hires Oscar to clear out his grandparent’s house.  And the rarer than it should be grumpy-grumpy trope.  Fuck buddy benefits continue, until deepening feelings ramp up fears. Oscar’s anxiety is hard to read at times but the friend support of his coterie is lovely to see.

alicebv1995's review against another edition

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3.0

Listened to this as an audiobook. It’s difficult to judge because I found the main characters insufferable but also I deeply related to Oscar’s struggles with depression and anxiety. I think it may be one of those things where we dislike things in other people that we dislike about ourselves. Some of the sex scenes were kind of cringey to listen to (a few times consent for certain actions seemed dubious at best). In particular, I felt deeply uncomfortable by Jack saying it turned him on that he was making Oscar uncomfortable. Big yikes. But I did enjoy the arc with Oscar and Jack and Evelyn (she was my favorite character). I also liked hearing a story about a fat person who someone else found attractive even if he didn’t see himself as such (though at times it’s described a bit in a fat fetishizing way). As a caveat, of all three audiobooks in this series, the narrator of this book was my least favorite. I may have more positive feelings about this book overall if the narration had been different.

pippin's review against another edition

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lighthearted slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

queerjennareads's review against another edition

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emotional funny lighthearted fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

sunny_pipes's review against another edition

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emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

moni_r's review against another edition

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funny hopeful slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

kuisma_'s review against another edition

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5.0

Such a great romcom! Funny and so relatable, and great banter. I loved the anxious, gay, chubby main character, and his relationships both with the love interest, and with his friend group. The anxiety representation was really well done, in my opinion!