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sarasreading's review against another edition
There are no major breakthroughs or working towards amazing mental health, but if you're interested in what makes a person seek out mental health care when things are just not right enough, and what beginning to identify thought and behavior patterns looks like in order to change them, this could be a good one to check out.
Graphic: Mental illness
Moderate: Domestic abuse and Alcohol
nica_chan's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Graphic: Alcohol, Eating disorder, and Suicidal thoughts
sarahsbooklife's review against another edition
2.25
Graphic: Mental illness and Alcohol
Moderate: Dysphoria, Body shaming, and Panic attacks/disorders
mheiling's review against another edition
1.75
Graphic: Mental illness
Moderate: Alcohol
Minor: Toxic friendship and Suicidal thoughts
discarded_dust_jacket's review against another edition
1.0
So I don’t hold it against Baek Sehee that this book missed the mark for me. It was wildly popular in Korea, so it has accomplished its goal, it has nothing to prove to me whatsoever.
However, since I did read it, here are my thoughts: it did a remarkable job of really highlighting the differences in how mental health is treated in Korea versus America. I audibly gasped at some of the things being said by the psychiatrist, like “Don’t think about the future too much. Your anxiety can become a burden to others” (page 57). That sort of professional advice would not be tolerated here.
I really didn’t find the format of this book very useful. It had potential, but more than anything I felt as though the therapy transcripts sort of became repetitive and didn’t quite go anywhere. Perhaps that’s the point—to show that progress is slow and doesn’t always announce itself in flashing neon letters, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t happening.
I understand that Sehee’s aim was to, in her words, “hold my hand up high and shout, I’m right here, hoping that someone would see me waving, recognize themselves in me and approach me, so we could find comfort in each other’s existence,” and to that end, I think the book is successful. Perhaps in a culture where mental health is just not talked about, transcribing and publishing one’s therapy sessions is itself a bold act, and reading them is validating for those who feel alone in their struggles.
Like I said, it just wasn’t for me. And that’s okay.
Graphic: Body shaming, Alcohol, Fatphobia, Bullying, and Domestic abuse
parasolcrafter's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Mental illness, Alcohol, Body shaming, Bullying, and Fatphobia
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Domestic abuse, and Child abuse
Minor: Homophobia
yaoipaddle's review against another edition
3.5
Better than I thought. I read it in about one day!
I really related to Se-hee at times and it is always nice to feel seen. What I really liked was this just bringing back memories of sessions with my own therapist.
I didn't like how the front had the mix of essays and transcripts but then it abruptly stopped and only had essays at the end. I wish it was more evenly spaced out. I am not sure if all the essays at the end were added in the translated version or later releases. I would like to know.
If you like memoirs and have been a 20-something year old woman with low self esteem you may like this. To be honest I find Se-hee including parts about herself that I didn't really like made the book feel more honest. Not like we have to fully like someone to like their book. Kinda the whole point and weird if you feel like you have to.
Graphic: Mental illness, Classism, Body shaming, Domestic abuse, Fatphobia, Sexism, Alcohol, Alcoholism, Child abuse, and Toxic friendship
Moderate: Eating disorder and Racism
joshuahc's review against another edition
2.5
Graphic: Body shaming, Mental illness, and Fatphobia
Moderate: Domestic abuse and Emotional abuse
Minor: Suicidal thoughts, Homophobia, Alcohol, Alcoholism, and Xenophobia
cooper_reads_books's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Alcohol, Suicidal thoughts, Mental illness, Body shaming, Dysphoria, and Toxic friendship
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, and Domestic abuse
james1star's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Mental illness
Minor: Alcohol, Alcoholism, Bullying, Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, and Fatphobia