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Quero morrer, mas também quero comer tteokbokki by Baek Se-hee
44 reviews
joshuahc's review against another edition
2.5
Graphic: Body shaming, Mental illness, and Fatphobia
Moderate: Domestic abuse and Emotional abuse
Minor: Suicidal thoughts, Homophobia, Alcohol, Alcoholism, and Xenophobia
lunsbooks's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Mental illness, Body shaming, and Fatphobia
Moderate: Domestic abuse and Alcoholism
Minor: Suicidal thoughts
naomi_k's review against another edition
4.0
Moderate: Body shaming, Dysphoria, Mental illness, Alcoholism, Eating disorder, and Emotional abuse
Minor: Toxic friendship, Suicidal thoughts, Panic attacks/disorders, Domestic abuse, Toxic relationship, Classism, Bullying, and Sexism
lauxreads's review against another edition
2.5
Upon taking another look, I quickly realized that I want to die but I want to eat tteokbokki wasn't a fiction book about a woman suffering with mental health issues, as I initially thought, but is instead a memoir of a woman's experience with therapy and working through her problems. I was very interested in the way the author would portray her experience, so of course I bought the book.
Now that I finished, I'm not sure what to think about it. Certainly, the matter of the book and the described exoeriences are deeply personal to the author so I don't want to go too deep into describing how I only found myself relating to short passages at the time, while other experiences were strange to me.
As far as the style of the book is concerned, the fact that it is largely made up of transcripts from therapy sessions is interesting to me. Since therapy is usually a confidential setting between the patient and the therapist, being the 'third person in the room' as a reader was interesting. However, I didnt enjoy the parts in between as much and the epilogues felt a bit distracting to me.
I would probably have enjoyed the book more if it was entirely made up of therapy transcripts - maybe including the author's thoughts where necessary.
At times, the descriptions also felt superficial, which is why I would have preferred for the book to be longer and to go into more detail.
Nonetheless, it was an interesting and fairly quick read that did include some sentences that I will also keep in mind for myself from time to time.
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Alcoholism, Mental illness, and Fatphobia
Minor: Homophobia and Xenophobia
james1star's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Mental illness
Minor: Alcohol, Alcoholism, Bullying, Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, and Fatphobia
machiko's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Mental illness
Minor: Death, Alcoholism, Dysphoria, Suicidal thoughts, and Eating disorder
kirstym25's review against another edition
2.0
Graphic: Fatphobia, Body shaming, and Mental illness
Moderate: Alcohol, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Homophobia
Minor: Alcoholism
leif's review against another edition
3.25
Moderate: Mental illness, Body shaming, and Toxic friendship
Minor: Suicidal thoughts, Domestic abuse, Medical content, Alcoholism, Alcohol, and Classism
Therapy sessions are included so lots of sensitive topics are discussed but it all seemed really sensitively handled to me.alexisgarcia's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Body shaming, Toxic friendship, Alcoholism, Alcohol, Grief, and Mental illness
snowwhitehatesapples's review against another edition
3.0
Written from the author’s perspective, I Want to Die but I Want to Eat Tteokbokki (IWTDBIWTET) is a collection of nonfictional dialogues and personal essays that centres around mental health, loving oneself and therapy. It touches upon her therapy sessions with her psychiatrist over 12 weeks (which can only show what we have despite her ten-year journey with therapy and mental health) and includes the author’s self-reflections toward those sessions.
“This is a record of a very ordinary, incomplete person who meets another ordinary, incomplete person, the latter of whom happens to be a therapist” (Page 156).
While I greatly appreciated the down-to-earth, straightforward approach the author took, the final few essays really accentuated the point of how IWTDBIWTET is ultimately directionless. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying there’s no point to this book (having good mental health and loving oneself is a continuous journey, after all) and I’m not saying that I expected a happy ending or answers (re: the continuous journey). Rather, there comes a point where despite relating to and understanding where the author and psychiatrist are coming from, the book becomes evidently structureless, mirroring the sessions the author had. Moreover, I think the book would’ve been stronger had the postscript chapter not been included. At least then, the content seems to come to a circle with a final line that relates back to the title.
“To right every wrong you come across in the world would be an impossible endeavor for any one person. You’re just one person, and you’re putting too much of the weight of the world on yourself” (Pages 11-12).
Nevertheless, I think this is an alright place to start for those that have little experience with therapy or have only begun their healthy mental health journey. You won’t find the overly-positive vibe that self-help books have or the accusatory, scary voice that makes you feel like you’re not “normal” (whatever “normal” is). Instead, IWTDBIWTET has a hopeful, and reflective tone as the author looks back and reflects. Though, of course, when there are ups, there will be downs too.
Moderate: Mental illness
Minor: Alcoholism