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alexandrabree's review against another edition
2.0
So this was just added to my local library's ebook collection
Split and mixed feelings because there was good but the bad is just SO bad.
I can't express how much I wish the LGBTQIA+ groups were split into the more rational tri split of LG / B / TQIA+, because all three groups end very different treatment. Which is semi addressed (sorta kinda not really)... and I just feel sad that the author conflates gay/lesbian so heavily with Trans. Because the two are worlds apart.
Then the whole message was then painted over with a big fat IDGAF brush to lean politically. Here I will be totally frank and rude to the author so sorry not sorry. It's disgusting that Americans have poured politics into what should be mental and physical health care, I agree with so much on LGB rights, almost everything and agree with almost nothing when it comes to Trans kids (Trans adults are adults thus can do whatever they want) I think Trans kids will be the next thalidomide, Prozac, scandal.
Even more accurate would be the sterilization acts of the 1930s up until the 1960s/1970s were people with an IQ under average or genetic abnormalities. Eugenics.
Anyway worth taking a look at the book but it's not the gospel I get the impression it was written to be. Much better parenting books could be referenced if your in search.
Split and mixed feelings because there was good but the bad is just SO bad.
I can't express how much I wish the LGBTQIA+ groups were split into the more rational tri split of LG / B / TQIA+, because all three groups end very different treatment. Which is semi addressed (sorta kinda not really)... and I just feel sad that the author conflates gay/lesbian so heavily with Trans. Because the two are worlds apart.
Then the whole message was then painted over with a big fat IDGAF brush to lean politically. Here I will be totally frank and rude to the author so sorry not sorry. It's disgusting that Americans have poured politics into what should be mental and physical health care, I agree with so much on LGB rights, almost everything and agree with almost nothing when it comes to Trans kids (Trans adults are adults thus can do whatever they want) I think Trans kids will be the next thalidomide, Prozac, scandal.
Even more accurate would be the sterilization acts of the 1930s up until the 1960s/1970s were people with an IQ under average or genetic abnormalities. Eugenics.
Anyway worth taking a look at the book but it's not the gospel I get the impression it was written to be. Much better parenting books could be referenced if your in search.
mesy_mark's review against another edition
3.0
A simple book on accepting your child if they are LGBT. Most focuses on the LBG population rather than the trans, which is understandable since it is a minority in a minority but I would have liked a bit more word on how gender dysphoria is a hard thing to deal with.
I liked how it had dos and don'ts as summarizing the end of each quick chapter. I liked how it expressed getting to understand your child and look at their end ie how being rejected by parents may be to the child, the risk factors that LGBT children face being a minority group. It also provided resources and further reading which is nice since sometimes reading more on a subject can help the reader understand the topic even more (gee know how much I tried this with my own Mom)
I also liked the "In Our Own Word's" sections that are at the end of each chapter. Gives a little of insight.
This is a book that I will like my own parents to read, at least certain sections since, although I am an adult, I am only a T in LGBT. It is a worthwhile read to a parent if they want a simplified version of how to accept your LGBT child.
I liked how it had dos and don'ts as summarizing the end of each quick chapter. I liked how it expressed getting to understand your child and look at their end ie how being rejected by parents may be to the child, the risk factors that LGBT children face being a minority group. It also provided resources and further reading which is nice since sometimes reading more on a subject can help the reader understand the topic even more (gee know how much I tried this with my own Mom)
I also liked the "In Our Own Word's" sections that are at the end of each chapter. Gives a little of insight.
This is a book that I will like my own parents to read, at least certain sections since, although I am an adult, I am only a T in LGBT. It is a worthwhile read to a parent if they want a simplified version of how to accept your LGBT child.
tanaraynor's review
hopeful
informative
reflective
fast-paced
3.75
Good book on how to parent LGBTQ+ children - especially for those religious parents out there. I think it more focuses on how to treat your child like a normal human being - when they come out especially. A great, informative book for all parents - no matter the child’s gender/sexual orientation. Only downside is it’s written by a white, straight, cis-woman and I feel like it could have had more of an impact if it was written by someone who had a different experience. But all around informative book on how to cope/deal/take in/treat LGBTQ+ children of your own and others around you. The parts of this book I especially loved were the personal stories at the end of each chapter - really helped me connect to the book personally as I have been in some of those situations myself.
amabp's review
3.0
More parenting than LGBTQ+
This is a very good book. I was just expecting a little bit more of LGBTQ+ information. It has great resources, but bear in mind it’s focused in North American culture.
This is a very good book. I was just expecting a little bit more of LGBTQ+ information. It has great resources, but bear in mind it’s focused in North American culture.
radlibrarianmama's review
4.0
A very practical 101 guide on how to be a supportive parent of a LGBTQ+ child.
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