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Growing up, Aidan felt like he didn’t belong until he told his parents he was a boy, not a girl. When he learns he’s going to be a big brother, he’s determined to make sure his little sibling feels like they belong and understood. Such a cute and heartfelt book.
This was honestly one of the sweetest books I have ever read. Aidan is a trans boy who recently came out to his parents and is finally able to decorate the room the way he wants and dress in clothes that he feels comfortable in. Then his parents tell him that he's going to be a big brother. Aidan is super excited and wants to make sure that the baby is comfortable from day one in a way that Aidan himself was not. He helps his parents buy baby clothes, decorate the baby's room, and pick a name "that could fit this new person no matter who they grew up to be." But still, he's worried that he's going to do something wrong, or that his choices won't be choices that the baby would have made. His mother reminds him that people make mistakes - like when they thought Aidan was a girl - but that mistakes can be corrected and loving someone no matter what choices they make can help make up for a lot of mistakes.
Everything about this book was perfect. Aidan is such an open, loving character who wants to live his own truth and wants to make sure that his sibling can do the same. His parents are understanding and willing to make whatever changes necessary to make Aidan more comfortable. I loved that Aidan's parents made a point of meeting up with other parents of trans kids, so that they and Aidan had a community to rely on and get help from if necessary. I loved how willing they were to listen to Aidan's concerns about getting ready for the new baby and the way they adjusted their language to be more gender neutral. I loved that Aidan recognized that his parents kind of regretted that the name they had chosen for their child didn't fit who he was, so he wanted to help pick a name that anyone could have, regardless of gender. I just loved the story completely.
And the artwork! It's so bright and colorful. Aidan honestly has the best outfits throughout the book. He's always rocking a bold print or two. There's something fun hidden away in pretty much every drawing.
Both the author and illustrator are #ownvoices for the story. Lukoff is a trans man and Juanita is a black woman, so between the two of them, this story felt so authentic and true. Both of them obviously put a lot of love into creating Aidan and his family and it absolutely shows.
This book should absolutely be in every library. I'd particularly recommend it for kids who are interested in gender and gender expression and kids who are about to become siblings.
Everything about this book was perfect. Aidan is such an open, loving character who wants to live his own truth and wants to make sure that his sibling can do the same. His parents are understanding and willing to make whatever changes necessary to make Aidan more comfortable. I loved that Aidan's parents made a point of meeting up with other parents of trans kids, so that they and Aidan had a community to rely on and get help from if necessary. I loved how willing they were to listen to Aidan's concerns about getting ready for the new baby and the way they adjusted their language to be more gender neutral. I loved that Aidan recognized that his parents kind of regretted that the name they had chosen for their child didn't fit who he was, so he wanted to help pick a name that anyone could have, regardless of gender. I just loved the story completely.
And the artwork! It's so bright and colorful. Aidan honestly has the best outfits throughout the book. He's always rocking a bold print or two. There's something fun hidden away in pretty much every drawing.
Both the author and illustrator are #ownvoices for the story. Lukoff is a trans man and Juanita is a black woman, so between the two of them, this story felt so authentic and true. Both of them obviously put a lot of love into creating Aidan and his family and it absolutely shows.
This book should absolutely be in every library. I'd particularly recommend it for kids who are interested in gender and gender expression and kids who are about to become siblings.
I want everyone to read this. A transgender kid becomes an older brother in this beautiful story about being seen and loved.
Too long for most storytimes, but perhaps very small groups and older kids. And all schools need this wonderful book.
Too long for most storytimes, but perhaps very small groups and older kids. And all schools need this wonderful book.
First, another book about transgender children that fails to explain what it means to feel like a boy or feel like a girl. How disappointing, alas I will continue my quest.
Second, Aidan seems a bit spoiled, but maybe I was just distracted by their huge trendy room and quirky wardrobe. We get it, you're so hip and cool, and clearly loaded.
Lastly, outside of the trans angle, there isn't a whole lot going on story-wise, pretty dull.
Illustrations were nice and colorful though, looked like watercolor, which I enjoy.
Second, Aidan seems a bit spoiled, but maybe I was just distracted by their huge trendy room and quirky wardrobe. We get it, you're so hip and cool, and clearly loaded.
Lastly, outside of the trans angle, there isn't a whole lot going on story-wise, pretty dull.
Illustrations were nice and colorful though, looked like watercolor, which I enjoy.
Love the sentiment here and how it addresses the thought process and discomfort the main character has, but there is a lot of repetition of thoughts.
Awesome primer about gender packaged in a beautifully-illustrated and written book for children PreK-3rd grade, following Aidan and his parents as they welcome a new baby into the family. I especially love this story, because it normalizes transgender youth, exemplifies a positive relationship between transgender children and their parents, both of whom are learning about gender at the same time, and calls into question the myriad of ways our society puts a gender label on everything. This book is festive, informative without being didactic, and it is accompanied with a teacher's guide available on Lee & Low's website.
An adorable picture book with a trans main character that we have been needing! Not that one is enough, but this book is adorable, with an engaging and thoughtful plotline, fabulous trans rep, and phenomenal art. This is why #ownoices matters.
When Aidan, a transgender boy, finds out his mother is having a baby, he wonders how he can help the baby to be themselves. Written by an own voices author, this thoughtful book will help young readers to learn more about themselves and the people with whom they share the world. Read. Learn. Share.
emotional
hopeful
inspiring
Loveable characters:
Yes
Diverse cast of characters:
Yes
Delightful, colorful, and informative. This is a great read for parents and children!