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The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter—And How to Make the Most of Them Now
Meg Jay
2.75k reviews for:
The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter—And How to Make the Most of Them Now
Meg Jay
informative
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced
A bit traditionalist in view but pretty insightful
Main thought of this book is: take your life into your hands and start caring about yourself now. This is nice.
Smaller details though not so good. It would be good if the author at least acknowledged that, you know, not everybody wants to have marriage and kids. And some people, you know, want but can't, because not everybody is straight and have all these marriage opportunities in front of them!
Also, maybe it's just me but the book makes it look to easy to get what you want (and understand what you want). Just do some networking, work hard for some time and here you go. Life doesn't really work this way for many of us, so it would be nice to notice it at some point.
Smaller details though not so good. It would be good if the author at least acknowledged that, you know, not everybody wants to have marriage and kids. And some people, you know, want but can't, because not everybody is straight and have all these marriage opportunities in front of them!
Also, maybe it's just me but the book makes it look to easy to get what you want (and understand what you want). Just do some networking, work hard for some time and here you go. Life doesn't really work this way for many of us, so it would be nice to notice it at some point.
Thought provoking and moves you to action.
Reading this made me realize just how "real" real life is and every single action, next step, decision can change the trajectory of my future and my lineage.
Reading this made me realize just how "real" real life is and every single action, next step, decision can change the trajectory of my future and my lineage.
challenging
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced
Make sure you’re in a good headspace when you start this book so you don’t spiral
adventurous
challenging
hopeful
informative
inspiring
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relaxing
fast-paced
Essential reading for 20-year-olds, especially those who feel lost and think they’re the only ones who feel that way.
grateful for the insight i gained from this book but its definitely not a one size fits all book that I'd say every 20 something needs to read.
challenging
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced
informative
reflective
medium-paced
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced