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Sarah Dessen

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Words cannot describe my feeling about this book. The Truth About Forever is one of my all time favorite books. Sarah Dessen captures her characters so perfectly and makes it so easy to fall in love with all of them, from Macy to Wes to Burt. I love this book so much.

I've decided I don't like Sarah Dessen books. Don't get me wrong, though - her writing is wonderful and I've only read two of her books, so I'm not really one to judge. My main problem with it, honestly, is that it's too realistic.

Yep, you heard me. I don't like Sarah Dessen books because it's too realistic. That's totally insane, right?

This is why I'm going to say you don't have to listen to my opinion on this. Dessen's writing is fantastic, and all her characters (for the most part), are believable. The reason I don't like them is because I'm one of those girls who doesn't like being realistic. I like fairy tales and romance that lights up a room, where the two people are obviously soul mates. The pattern I've noticed with this book and the only other Dessen book I've read, Along For The Ride, is that the romance actually happens like it would in real life, meaning the feelings develop at a painfully slow pace and nothing too heart stopping happens at all. Most of the scenes are pretty much every day life stuff.

My favorite character was Delia, which I find interesting because she may be the first female character I've actually really really liked in a book. She was great, and I could picture her clearly.

I had one other problem with this, though: Macy's mom. And honestly, it's because I relate. Macy's mom has this perfect little mold in which she wants Macy to forever stay. She doesn't accept her when she changes, even though she changes for the better. My dad is just like this, never accepting anything I do on my own. And I suppose I should have felt good about relating to it, but it just made me really mad because Macy was understanding to her mom, even though her mom didn't deserve it. Which is so dumb for me to think that, because that's obviously the better thing for Macy to do. I don't know, basically, the two reasons I didn't like this book were because of personal problems.

Ages 14&up: Cussing. Drinking. Some sexual talk.

Wes was one of the best male characters I've read in a book recently


Continuing my Sarah Dessen backlist kick, I picked this book up in early June while I was travelling to visit family. This book felt like the opposite of my High School experience in many ways. Macy has her life organized and put together because her own mother's life as a writer is completely disorganized. Macy rebels against touchy-feely relationships because her mother falls in and out of love and marriages like the changing of the seasons. So Macy has the perfect distanced boyfriend who is helping her build her resume and structure her time efficiently and productively, and Macy takes no time to be a teenager figuring her way in the world.





Macy's sister is really bothered by this fact, and continues to encourage Macy to go out and have some wild times. This was one part of this book that was supposed to be a "good thing" but really just rubbed me the wrong way. I think it's okay for teenagers to be organized if they want to be. Macy's sister was trying to get her to have some fun, but fun doesn't have to be High School parties and late nights out. In the end, Dessen reveals a nice compromise between Macy's previously boring life and what her sister thinks she should be doing.





I love Macy's catering job with Wish. Those scenes perfectly describe the controlled chaos that is the food industry. I love working in the food industry for all of the chaos and last minute changes that are required. The people Macy meets while working at Wish are these incredibly full humans with all of their own drama and goals and experiences that open up a full world of possibilities to Macy. I love Wes's art.





If you're not one for touchy-feely teen coming of age stories, don't bother picking this book up. It reads just like all of Sarah Dessen's other books, which I'm discovring is something I really enjoy. I love character driven novels, I love reading about people exploring every day life.



Sarah Dessen is a very good author and I have read all of her books and love them. I definitely recommend any of her novels.

Sarah Dessen már megint jól beletalált és egy élvezetes ifjúsági regényt hozott össze. Nincs benne nagy megváltás, hatalmas konfliktusok és igen, még a vége is azt az üzenetet hordozza, hogy semmi se fog egy csapásra megoldódni, mert dolgozni kell érte és vannak bizonyos esetek, amikkel egy tinilány, bármennyire is szeretne, nem tud mit kezdeni. Itt elsősorban Macy anyjára és az ő helyzetére gondolok, arra, hogy miképp dolgozza fel a gyászt. Dessen regényeiben még tetszik az is, hogy nem mindent a szerelemre hegyez ki. Mert ugyan itt is van benne romantikus érdekeltség, de Macy életében a barátok léte és az, hogy vannak akik közt végre önmagát adhatja, mert nincsenek vele szemben elvárások, sokkal fontosabb, mint hogy lesz-e csók vagy nem.

A magyar kiadással két problémám volt. Először is, a címe szerintem félrevezető, mert az eredeti “The Truth About Forever“az egész regénynek más hangsúlyt ad, mint a Tökéletes. Azzal a címmel olvasva Macynek azzal kell szembenéznie, hogy semmi sem tart örökké és be kell látnia, hogy ez még nem feltétlenül rossz, vagy éppen bizonytalanságra ad okot. A regényt ilyen szellemben olvasva nem a tökéletesség mibenléte volna a fő mozgatórugója. A másik pedig, hogy bár a fordítás élvezetes volt, a könyv tele volt helyesírási hibákkal elírásokkal amelyek itt-ott zavaróak voltak.

Részletesebben: http://olvasonaplo.net/olvasonaplo/2011/02/19/sarah_dessen_tokeletes/

Great characters and a joy to read (or listen to, as the case may be). I can see why everyone love Sarah Dessen's books so much, even more so with this one than the first I read. Macy's journey throughout the book is both brave and heartbreaking, and the changes in both her, her family, and her friends at the end is so happy and necessary. Wes & Macy's relationship grows naturally and organically, and we see it all unfold. Not only do they belong together, but they need one another - they understand and help each other like no one else could. I was sad when this one came to an end, because I could use more imperfect happiness in my life. :)

I loved this book!!! It was so much fun and I loved all of the characters and I think this book may have been the one to once and for all get me out of this reading slump!! I adore Sarah Dessen's writing and I'm super excited to read more of her novels.

After her father's sudden death, Macy Queen deals with her grief by stuffing her feelings away and pretending that she is fine. She has a "perfect" boyfriend and pushes herself to be flawless enough to deserve him.

When Jason leaves for a prestigious summer "Brain Camp," Macy feels lost. She hates her summer job at the library, but soon finds herself working for Wish Catering, a job her mother thinks is beneath her, but one where Macy finds new friends and a sense of deep connection that helps her finally begin to work through her grief.

Moving and hopeful.


Stayed up late just to finish this.

This book conveys the message of the beauty of imperfection. The appealing effect of chaos in the middle of a well-organized life.

I know nothing's perfect, that's what it was all about. But Wes was close to it - to perfection. He was just (as the author said) strikingly gorgeous.

Other than that, I don't know but I understand Macy's dilemmas. About Manda and Bethany. About her mom.

Yes, this book was great.