felt like the book was missing something, but nevertheless a moving reminder to cherish our parents

Well-written, but the story just didn't grab me.

Meu coração está partido, mas também estou encantada com a beleza desse livro. Chorei, quis procurar a mamãe, quis brigar e abraçar cada um que passou pela vida dela e senti vontade de comer cada prato.
Que livro lindo!

Exactamente o livro de que eu precisava para restaurar a minha fé na literatura contemporânea. Uma história difícil, mas escrita de forma tão bonita e ternurenta… Tantos ângulos e todos belissimamente descritos. Cada personagem tem as suas idiossincrasias tão bem capturadas… Este livro faz-nos pensar nos sacrifícios que já fizeram por nós - e que, muitas vezes, demos como garantidos - mas também que não há uma verdade absoluta nas relações familiares. E que é tão fácil fingir que “nada se passa de anormal” para adiar certos sofrimentos… Para reflectir. P.S. O meu conhecimento de livros e autores asiáticos ainda é muito reduzido. Este foi o primeiro livro em que me lembro de sentir o conforto e o amor à volta das refeições.
emotional reflective sad slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Plot
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

This book broke me over and over again. The ideas of feminism is melted into the form of a mother. She is easily digestible.

I think that part of the reason the book is so sad is because it’s realistic. At that time there were many mothers like that. Even now.

I just finished the book so my review is a mess. My head is still hazy. I just hope that I will be able to see changes in my life after reading this. Best book I’ve read so far.
emotional reflective slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Significant events in my adult life provided me with a clearer understanding of my mother.

This book was incredibly hard to read because it made me question my efforts and presence as a daughter. Each chapter is told from the perspective of a different character and their relationship to mother, who is not only a mother, but also a wife, sister, daughter and human being. The entire book is such a heartfelt tribute to a life lived selflessly for others.

I underlined a bunch of quotes, but the one that really resonated with me was short, yet deeply touching.

'My baby,' Mother says, and opens her arms.


Hugs from mothers are a great source of physical and emotional healing. The ending of the book is sure to leave you sitting in silence for a few minutes while you think about the boundless love of motherhood.
emotional hopeful mysterious reflective sad tense fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
emotional mysterious reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes