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We Can't Keep Meeting Like This by Rachel Lynn Solomon

amydobrzynski's review against another edition

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funny hopeful lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

jodi_ice's review against another edition

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I DNF’d one book last year, and I hope this is the only book I DNF this year.
I’ve tried and tried to listen to it but I just can’t engage with the characters. I just don’t care about them.
I’ve fallen asleep, zoned out, and even forgotten I was listening to this book and had to rewind so many times it is unreal. I have no idea what is going on really despite having listened to the first part about 20 times at least except her apparently picking up and eating a piece of melon was it thinking it was cheese?? Because you wouldn’t be able to tell the difference between those two. Especially if you have an allergy to one of them.

sarah_nmashie's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective relaxing sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I'm in love with this book now. I was so hesitant to read it because I didn't think I would be into it but I so was and it's so worth the read 

themermaddie's review against another edition

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4.0

i love it when books catch me off guard, this was much better than i expected but definitely different than what i was expecting.

this book's shining moment is how each character is so well developed, i fully believe that these are all real people with complex and complicated emotions. this is just such a great cast of characters. it has excellent family dynamics and explores the way we are all deeply shaped by our families, and of course, shows off different kinds of non-romantic love (a favourite theme of mine!). i was a big fan of quinn's relationships with her family, her complicated love and resentment for her parents and asher are so well expressed. her relationship with asher was one of my favourites, navigating this new phase in both of their lives and staying close despite their age gap. the plot concerning quinn's misbelief that her family's love is conditional was my favourite of the book, the overall message of working through things with the ones you love because they're worth it was so lovely. this is definitely a family heavy story and it warmed my heart.

the author clearly understands her characters' psychologies so well, i'm so obsessed w the way that tarek and quinn's respective approaches to romance clash so perfectly. the romantic and the cynic trope isn't new but this is such a good take on it, rachel lynn solomon has absolutely understood the assignment. i love that their romance was built on proper friendship, their conflicts were all the result of their own specific pathologies and it was so believable and honest. definitely less of a friends to rivals to lovers story and more of a friends to lovers story, with some miscommunication due to misunderstandings.

the writing is deceptively simplistic at times, but i think that it actually did a good job with speaking between the lines, particularly because a great deal of the story had instances of miscommunication. i was briefly worried at the beginning bc i was afraid that it was going to fall into the miscommunication trope (my least favourite trope) but luckily it was handled very well! this book really emphasises the importance of communication, building misunderstandings to resolve them with difficult but necessary conversations. i'd say the story as a whole is about these characters relearning how to express love for others and themselves in healthy ways, and i loved watching tarek and quinn fight and find compromises.

to be honest the romance was the least interesting plot for me, but still really enjoyed it and i love these characters. i was more invested in the bildungsroman aspect of quinn trying to figure out who she is outside of her assigned role in the family. i love her insecurities and uncertainties about what she wants from life when everyone around her seems to have it all figured out, and i loved her relationship with maxine; two lovely lost and lonely people finding friendship with each other. i was so invested in quinn's future and her rediscovering her love for the harp; i really liked the scenes with characters explaining their love for their respective passions, like tarek with baking and asher with wedding planning. i also really liked the mental illness rep, i loved the depictions of quinn's ocd and tarek's depression, it wasn't dramatised or exploited as an excuse for shitty behaviour.

overall this is a fantastic coming of age romance with above average characterisation, this is a must read if you want a YA novel that discusses messy complicated teen feelings <3

tzd's review against another edition

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3.75

Quinn and Tarek. 
Families who plan and run weddings together. Childhood friends, second chance romance. She confesses her love via email, he doesn’t respond as he’s busy with college and dealing with his own mental health issues and studies. They have a falling out. Fast forward to when they see each other again and rekindle their friendship. 
This story was cute, made me swoon and very rom-com-y. 
I thought the scene when T confessed his crush on Q was a bit rushed and too early in the story. 
Frustrating when Q would undermine and reject T’s grand romantic gestures, hurt my heart a little. She was very wishy washy and didn’t know what she wanted, which I found annoying. All the wedding prep stuff was a little boring and got repetitive. 
Liked the mental health (OCD, anx, dep) rep tho. 
Quotes: 
. "And sometimes the world is terrible, and love stories... They make it feel less heavy."
He's not going to ask me if I've seen his new favorite rom-com or give me the smile that makes me melt like a bar of milk chocolate left in the sun.

kimmybartle's review against another edition

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4.0

Strong-willed, quick-wit female character with a penchant for dresses with animal patterns and a childhood friend turned hot? Interested.
Realistic OCD and depression representation? Calling my heart.
Mentions of allergies within the first chapter and people reacting to them properly instead of saying "that's so weird"? Yes, you got me.
A girl who feels she has no say and no voice finding a way to show up for HERSELF? I'M ALL IN.

While I can't speak to the Jewish or Muslim representation* and other readers' concerns around it (completely valid), I thoroughly enjoyed the plot and the fast-paced inner monologues.

I walked away from this book with a deep need to go visit Seattle. But the silliest coincidence about reading this one, is that I had just left my best friend's wedding, no? I was sitting at an airport flipping through book recommendations and the title alone seemed to be calling my name. Imagine my surprise when I find out weddings take such a big role in this novel! Fate? I think so – Quinn may not agree but Tarek would find this statement romantic.

ameserole's review against another edition

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4.0

Okay, so, We Can't Keep Meeting Like This definitely had it's cute moments. It just kind of sucks that I couldn't truly connect with both characters. I mean Quinn was okay but I honestly didn't really like the girl for most of this book. She was just whiny and it rubbed me the wrong way. As for Tarek, I actually liked the guy. He seemed like a little cinnamon roll and I thought he was completely adorable.

Other than that, I did find it quite funny that they kept running into each other throughout the summer at weddings. Their families were both working at them and it just kind of made their relationship a bit more fun and a little unique. I also really enjoyed the mental illness representation in this as well. Especially when it came to OCD because I always find that fascinating in a character or person.

In the end, it was a cute book. I enjoyed watching friendships and relationship grow throughout the book. Especially the family ones because things needed to be said and everyone needed to adapt to the change that was bound to happen. I definitely look forward to the next book that Rachel writes. I feel like I have a ton on my TBR already so now I just need to dip my toes into them.

ankiaisreading's review against another edition

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lighthearted fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

empoostinks's review against another edition

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emotional funny inspiring reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

UGHHH SOOSOSOSOSO GOOD 

literally LOVE how Solomon writes her characters. everything abt the characters in this story were so lovable and usually idc abt wether a character is like able or not bc i leik the entertainment BUT THIS BOOK IT WAS ALL SO PERF even down to their flaws bc the character development IS SO STRONG and it’s all so beautifully intertwined with everything that happens in the story SO GOOD

literally the two are so insanely cute and leik UGH there were just so many topics touched in this story that i rly rly rly rly loved it

the OCD representation was chefs kiss 

blaubunt's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful lighthearted slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0