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Anne Enright

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Book club book:
This was an interesting character study but it was also kind of boring not in the sense that I was bored but in the sense that I struggled to pay attention when I was reading it. Like honestly if you ask me for something other than the main plot outline I would really struggle. I'm interested to discuss this though and see what other people think about it!

There is absolutely no such thing as a normal family. Everyone's family is a bit crazy though some are crazier than others. The Madigan's are one of those special kinds of Irish crazy though I'm sure there's families like them everywhere. The self centred mother, the long suffering eldest daughter trying to take care of everyone, the sons who have fecked off, and the rather dramatic somewhat spoilt youngest child. But they are also the kind of family that when the chips are down will appear over the hill to help.


While reading it I couldn't help but think of the poem by Phillip Larkin:


“They fuck you up, your mum and dad.

They may not mean to, but they do.

They fill you with the faults they had

And add some extra, just for you." - This be the Verse by Phillip Larkin

It is certainly a book about how our childhood and the things we are taught by are parents shape our later life. Rosaleen is undoubtedly a women dissatisfied with her life and with tendency to depression. She believes that she married beneath her in marrying a poor local farmer. She failed to live up to her potential. She is also extremely fond of that great Irish tradition of taking to the bed when things get too much. Her children too are dissatisfied with their lives. None of them seem overly happy at how things have panned out.



The book is also an interesting portrayal of a changing Ireland over a course of 30 years and it's changing social structures. Rosaleen's father ran the local pharmacy. In mid 20th century Ireland he, and by extension Rosaleen, would have commanded power and respect in the town as am important local business man. They belonged to the middle classes. When the book opens that power is waning and by the modern sections of the book (set in 2005 while the Celtic Tiger is its peak) we see the rise of a new wealthy class - the developer - a group into which Constance has married. Every member of her husbands family seem to be involved in the construction sector in some way. The brashness of this new found wealth is most evident when Constance is doing the Christmas shopping. She buy's her mother an expensive scarf, strongly suspecting she won't like it because that is the kind of woman her mother is, and manages to spend €400 on the Christmas food shop, which we are informed is a record and a fact apparently Dessie will be very proud of. Ah the craziness of the Celtic Tiger!!

The social changes occuring in Ireland during the course of the book, however are perhaps most evident in relation to Dan. The book open's with Dan informing his family he wants to become a priest. Rosaleen, who is far from happy at this news promptly takes to the bed. 20 or 30 years previously she would have been singing such news from the rooftops, but even by the 1980's having a son in the priesthood no longer carried the prestige it once did. Dan is in fact gay, and in the end never becomes a priest. We witness both he and his family struggle with his sexuality. Even in the later sections set in 2005 (notably 12 years after homosexuality was officially decriminalised in Ireland and 10 years before the historic vote to allow gay marriage) it is clear some members of the family struggle with it. It is not something they discuss, but rather ignore as one of the many things they leave unsaid. The rural - urban divide, and the generational gap are both evident in how different members of the family deal with Dan's sexuality. Emmet and Hanna living in Dublin are clearly far more comfortable with it than Rosaleen or Constance still living in rural Clare, equally Constance's children are more comfortable with it than their parents. It is a clear example of a changing Ireland.

This is an excellent book about the Irish family, the legacies we carry and how much Ireland changed in a relatively short period of time. I found it a surprisingly compelling read. For anyone interested in Irish literature this is a must read.


Note on the Author:

Anne Enright is currently Ireland's inaugural Laureate for Irish Fiction

I really struggled with the first half of this book. In part one, each chapter introduces one of the siblings, none of them seemed particularly likeable and I found it hard to relate to any of them but there was just enough to give you an inkling about their character. The last chapter in part one is Rosaleen, their mother and she was the person who kept me going into part two. The second part of the book brings the siblings together for Christmas at Rosaleen's home. This is where the book worked for me, the family dynamics and that old nightmare of Christmas. I think I'm addicted to situations where families come together at Christmas, bitterness, success, jealousy and joy in that pressure cooker of the perfect Christmas. This didn't disappoint, but there's nothing new here and for me it just didn't stand out from the crowd.

had to shotgun for class, wish i could’ve taken my time with it. the prose is so rich i can’t wait to go to the West. LOVE the elements of queer time 
emotional reflective sad slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
dark emotional sad fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

It's a great read, an insight into Irish matriarchal families. The Mam could easily be based on my own mother in law with her don't trouble yourself over me attitude causing confusion and hurt, and generally making things unbearable for herself and those around. Things unspoken are never resolved, until
after she goes AWOL. This wakes everyone up to the world beyond themselves, what they've missed.
dark emotional sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Library stole it back :(
emotional reflective sad slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
emotional reflective sad slow-paced