I loved this book! I loved that it was written from the young boy's perspective when he was older. I read this as a book club selection and we had a wonderful conversation about the woman's (forgetting the name) involvement in the War, which was much more enlightening than I gathered on my own. Great great read.

Masterful storytelling, rich in emotions.
What started as what I thought then to be a 'reversed' Lolita, turned out to be one of the most riveting books I have read.

I was skeptical about reading this after my sister in law so the book in my ever growing "to read" piled and went into a rant about how "disturbing" the movie was.

5 stars for the philosophical, thought provoking questions and overall exploration of relationships (albeit a strange, unconventional relationship). Full characters, clean writing. Loved it!
emotional medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated
reflective sad slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Diverse cast of characters: No

I picked up this book because of the buzz about the movie. Having read it, I have no desire to see the movie. It couldn't approach the impact of the book. This is not an easy read, only because of the ideas and themes that are constantly in flux as the novel moves forward. Themes like freedom of choice, the nature of guilt--both individual and collective, and the seeming helplessness of both victims and the victimized grab the reader and elicit a "what would I do in that situation" response. To relate much of the plot would spoil the book for readers. Everyone talks of the book as being about the sexual relationship between 15 year old Michael Berg and Hanna, an emotionally remote women who is 20 years his senior. But it is so much more. Taking place in postwar Germany, the domestic policies of Hitler's Germany, as seen by the generation growing up after the war, are an important focus of the book. I identified with both Michael and Hanna at different points in the story and grieved with them over their choices. The only thing that disappointed me was the fact that I guessed the secret too soon in the story--the foreshadowing might have been a little too obvious. This is going to be a difficult book to put out of my mind. I highly recommend it.
challenging emotional reflective fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
challenging emotional informative tense slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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reflective slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Plot
Strong character development: N/A
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: N/A
dark emotional reflective sad fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes