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The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk
110 reviews
kelly_e's review against another edition
4.0
Author: Bessel van der Kolk
Genre: Non Fiction
Rating: 4.00
Pub Date: June 12, 2014
T H R E E • W O R D S
Dense • Informative • Impactful
📖 S Y N O P S I S
Trauma is a fact of life. Veterans and their families deal with the painful aftermath of combat; one in five Americans has been molested; one in four grew up with alcoholics; one in three couples have engaged in physical violence.
Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world’s foremost experts on trauma, has spent over three decades working with survivors. In The Body Keeps the Score, he uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers’ capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust. He explores innovative treatments—from neurofeedback and meditation to sports, drama, and yoga—that offer new paths to recovery by activating the brain’s natural neuroplasticity.
💭 T H O U G H T S
The Body Keeps the Score was recommended to me by a mental health professional while I was searching for books in my own healing journey. My life has held trauma and grief, and I now know both have manifested in a variety of ways in my body. I was seeking to understand it all better so this book felt like the right place to start.
Based on his own research and that of other leading trauma specialists, this informative book details fascinating research on the topic. It examines the effects of trauma on the brain, the mind and the body. It explains how different parts of the body can hold trauma. It proposes several options for treatment. It challenges the status quo. In fact, it shines a light on the failures of the health care system and the lack of access to treatment options. I appreciated this critique of the system, because I have been there. Our society's reliance on medication doesn't solve the underlying issue, it simply offers a temporary band aid.
The information and research gets extremely dense and wordy at times, and in those moments I would find my attention withdrawing. In my opinion, without an expertise on the topic, it isn't an easily digestible read. The value for the average reader lies in the notion of having the ability to reclaim our lives in the wake of trauma.
In my opinion, this isn't necessarily a book to sit down and read through in its entirety. Rather it is best consumed in small portions, where you can sit with what you've read for awhile before coming back for more. Because there is so much information to digest, it can get overwhelming or even lost if read straight through.
The Body Keeps the Score is a transformative and necessary addition to the topic of trauma. The exploration of the mind/body connection was interesting and lead to many ah-ha moments for me. I came away understanding my own mind and body better, which is a gift in itself. I can see myself coming back to this at different times for reassurance.
📚 R E C O M M E N D • T O
• anyone who has gone through trauma
• mental and physical health care professionals
• loved ones of people who have experienced trauma
🔖 F A V O U R I T E • Q U O T E S
"The drug revolution that started out with so much promise may in the end have done as much harm as good. The theory that mental illness is caused primarily by chemical imbalances in the brain that can be corrected by specific drugs has become broadly accepted, by the media and the public as well as by the medical profession. In many places drugs have displaced therapy and enabled patients to suppress their problems without addressing the underlying issues."
"Traumatized people chronically feel unsafe inside their bodies: The past is alive in the form of gnawing interior discomfort. Their bodies are constantly bombarded by visceral warning signs, and, in an attempt to control these processes, they often become expert at ignoring their gut feelings and in numbing awareness of what is played out inside. They learn to hide from their selves."
"The greatest sources of our suffering are the lies we tell ourselves."
Graphic: Alcoholism, War, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Rape, Medical content, Drug abuse, Suicide attempt, Addiction, Child abuse, Suicide, Mental illness, Eating disorder, Violence, Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, Emotional abuse, and Medical trauma
Moderate: Incest, Pedophilia, Self harm, Car accident, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Grief, Death, and Abandonment
gabriella_'s review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Medical trauma, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Injury/Injury detail, Pedophilia, Confinement, Body horror, Child abuse, Car accident, Body shaming, Adult/minor relationship, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Blood, Incest, Sexual harassment, Medical content, Eating disorder, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Sexual assault, Self harm, Physical abuse, Misogyny, Gun violence, Genocide, Death, Bullying, Alcohol, and Alcoholism
revived_reading's review against another edition
5.0
After taking the months to read this book (seeing as the content is very heavy and there is a lot of material), I learned so much.
Graphic: Mental illness, Pedophilia, Car accident, Child abuse, Incest, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Chronic illness, Abandonment, Addiction, Drug abuse, Emotional abuse, Injury/Injury detail, Self harm, War, Adult/minor relationship, and Alcoholism
Minor: Body shaming, Bullying, Eating disorder, Forced institutionalization, Infidelity, and Kidnapping
This has very triggering content, seeing as this book discusses trauma. To put the research of this book into perspective, Dr. van der Kolk tells the stories of some of his patients. None of which is pretty, but it has its impact and use within the book.novella42's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Ableism, Adult/minor relationship, Alcohol, Alcoholism, Bullying, Cancer, Death, Fire/Fire injury, Injury/Injury detail, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Self harm, Sexual assault, Addiction, Child death, Chronic illness, Drug use, Forced institutionalization, Gaslighting, Incest, Medical content, Medical trauma, Grief, Sexual violence, Terminal illness, Violence, War, Car accident, Death of parent, Drug abuse, Mental illness, Murder, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Gun violence, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Sexism, and Sexual harassment
bookedandbusy's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Physical abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Medical trauma, Incest, Grief, Emotional abuse, Drug abuse, Eating disorder, Drug use, War, Fire/Fire injury, Self harm, Mental illness, Car accident, Alcoholism, Gun violence, Sexual violence, Rape, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Pedophilia, and Sexual assault
lydiagraceg's review against another edition
4.0
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Self harm, Medical content, Infidelity, Pedophilia, Panic attacks/disorders, Mental illness, Medical trauma, Rape, Violence, Dysphoria, Death, Car accident, Bullying, Domestic abuse, Child abuse, War, Incest, Adult/minor relationship, Sexual assault, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Abandonment, Sexual violence, Suicide attempt, and Schizophrenia/Psychosis
tmickey's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Trafficking, Child abuse, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Violence, Physical abuse, Infidelity, Gun violence, Incest, Domestic abuse, Stalking, Kidnapping, Car accident, Medical trauma, Sexual violence, War, Sexual harassment, Rape, Forced institutionalization, Drug abuse, Suicidal thoughts, Mental illness, Grief, Emotional abuse, Adult/minor relationship, Toxic relationship, Suicide attempt, Self harm, Pedophilia, Death of parent, Death, Child death, and Abandonment
Moderate: Alcoholism, Addiction, Alcohol, Bullying, and Eating disorder
andreabrownriley's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Car accident, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Rape, Addiction, Alcoholism, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Drug use, Grief, and Panic attacks/disorders
Minor: Self harm and Medical trauma
katiewhocanread's review against another edition
Graphic: Abandonment, Alcoholism, Car accident, Domestic abuse, Rape, Emotional abuse, Incest, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Child abuse, Self harm, and War
alexcribbs's review against another edition
3.75
Very informative but at times unnecessarily detailed regarding specific people’s traumas.
Graphic: Car accident
Moderate: Abandonment, Sexual assault, Child abuse, Pedophilia, and Domestic abuse
Lots of content warnings, so I just listed the ones off the top of my head. Ultimately it’s for the sake of explaining different uses of therapy that helped these people overcome their traumatic pasts but I definitely had to skip certain parts.