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4.02 AVERAGE
4.02 AVERAGE
challenging
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hopeful
inspiring
reflective
sad
medium-paced
This is the tale of a strong woman, a survivor. It feels strange to review it, because it feels like reviewing someone's life. I mostly want to thank Stephanie for sharing her life and her memories with us. I'm glad you are a survivor, because I am sure the world is more beautiful with you in it.
I received a free copy through Netgalley, in turn for an honest review.
I received a free copy through Netgalley, in turn for an honest review.
challenging
dark
hopeful
reflective
sad
medium-paced
Content Warnings
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Cancer, Child abuse, Child death, Chronic illness, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Infidelity, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, Terminal illness, Torture, Toxic relationship, Violence, Forced institutionalization, Excrement, Medical content, Kidnapping, Grief, Car accident, Abortion, Death of parent, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Alcohol, Classism
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This beautifully crafted book will touch your soul!
From the very first page, I couldn’t put the book down. It is a must-read for anyone who has grappled with trauma or wrestled with the complexities of family relationships, particularly mother-daughter dynamics.
After finishing this book, I am left deeply moved and profoundly touched. Without a doubt, I will be adding a hard copy of American Daughter to my home library collection, as it is a treasure to be revisited and shared with others.
From the very first page, I couldn’t put the book down. It is a must-read for anyone who has grappled with trauma or wrestled with the complexities of family relationships, particularly mother-daughter dynamics.
After finishing this book, I am left deeply moved and profoundly touched. Without a doubt, I will be adding a hard copy of American Daughter to my home library collection, as it is a treasure to be revisited and shared with others.
Stephanie Thornton Plymale has absolutely been through a lot, and is a survivor. For someone with inconsistent schooling and who didn’t learn to read until after 10, she wrote a decent memoir. That said, the writing style was too colloquial to my taste and the narrative arch didn’t build throughout the book. She went through a few years in her life where her marriage was rocky, her mom was dying and she was trying to learn more about family… but the flashbacks pacing didn’t work for me, and also, somehow the story seemed too linear.
“Nothing is as simple as a fairytale”
American Daughter by Stephanie Thornton Plymale is a memoir of a woman who hid her past, just like her mother and grandmothers did before her. This memoir has so many layers and about 1/3 of the way through, I didn’t know if this story was one I cared to read anymore about. Then a “so what” moment happened and OH MY OH (you can ask my family) I did nothing except bury myself in the rest of Stephanie’s story. Unforgettable, complex and insightful, this memoir is right up there with The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls.
Pub date: 1/12/21
Thank you to @netgalley and @harperonebooks for the advanced digital galley.
American Daughter by Stephanie Thornton Plymale is a memoir of a woman who hid her past, just like her mother and grandmothers did before her. This memoir has so many layers and about 1/3 of the way through, I didn’t know if this story was one I cared to read anymore about. Then a “so what” moment happened and OH MY OH (you can ask my family) I did nothing except bury myself in the rest of Stephanie’s story. Unforgettable, complex and insightful, this memoir is right up there with The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls.
Pub date: 1/12/21
Thank you to @netgalley and @harperonebooks for the advanced digital galley.
A memoir of a shockingly horrible childhood and years of abuse dealing with a mentally unwell mother. What the daughter learns about her mother’s family and her paternity are a welcome “bright spot” in a miserable true story.
emotional
hopeful
inspiring
reflective
sad
medium-paced
Content Warnings
Graphic: Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Kidnapping
Moderate: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Toxic relationship, Schizophrenia/Psychosis
If you are looking for a memoir to read, I just finished this one. It is really good. It is unflinchingly honest and will make your heart hurt, make you furious, but also make you smile. It explains things to change the mom from a one dimensional “bad mom” to an understanding of what caused her mom to splinter apart and to show redemption is possible for some people, but that others are too broken for anything except accepting and loving them, anyway.
“I was an American daughter, in the most optimistic sense of the phrase. And I was an American nightmare. I was a child, one of millions, who fell between the cracks”
Wow, my first memoir of 2021 is in the books and it was a heavy one. Thank you [#partner] @bibliolifestyle and @harperonebooks for this gifted copy.
This book just came out yesterday 1/12/21 so it’s hot off the press!
There are quite a few triggers in this one that I want to make clear to anyone who is interested in picking up this deeply moving book. Those triggers include: sexual assault, pedophilia, suicide, drug addiction, miscarriage, mental illness, loss of a parent, and child abuse.
Stephanie Thornton Plymale has experienced incomprehensible trauma that took root before she even came into the world. She lacked basic care and nourishment and was often found homeless or trapped in a dangerous foster home, her mother was in and out of jail and psych wards her whole childhood, and her siblings were all separated from her, leaving her to fend for herself.
What truly sets this book apart is the longing Stephanie still had, despite it all, to learn about her mother’s life as she learns that her mother is dying of cancer. She somehow had the strength to put aside the pain and trauma her mother supplied her with, to sit down with her and learn her story. Despite having read this story (in one sitting by the way) I still can’t begin to understand how difficult it must have been for Stephanie to put her mother’s story to paper. To have to dredge through her own trauma to put her mother’s story and life first.
To think that Stephanie kept her story to herself for 50 years is heartbreaking. The courage that it took her to share this story with the world is incredible, and this memoir is a brutal glimpse into the foster care system in America and the lives of children who fell through the cracks because of a broken system.
Wow, my first memoir of 2021 is in the books and it was a heavy one. Thank you [#partner] @bibliolifestyle and @harperonebooks for this gifted copy.
This book just came out yesterday 1/12/21 so it’s hot off the press!
There are quite a few triggers in this one that I want to make clear to anyone who is interested in picking up this deeply moving book. Those triggers include: sexual assault, pedophilia, suicide, drug addiction, miscarriage, mental illness, loss of a parent, and child abuse.
Stephanie Thornton Plymale has experienced incomprehensible trauma that took root before she even came into the world. She lacked basic care and nourishment and was often found homeless or trapped in a dangerous foster home, her mother was in and out of jail and psych wards her whole childhood, and her siblings were all separated from her, leaving her to fend for herself.
What truly sets this book apart is the longing Stephanie still had, despite it all, to learn about her mother’s life as she learns that her mother is dying of cancer. She somehow had the strength to put aside the pain and trauma her mother supplied her with, to sit down with her and learn her story. Despite having read this story (in one sitting by the way) I still can’t begin to understand how difficult it must have been for Stephanie to put her mother’s story to paper. To have to dredge through her own trauma to put her mother’s story and life first.
To think that Stephanie kept her story to herself for 50 years is heartbreaking. The courage that it took her to share this story with the world is incredible, and this memoir is a brutal glimpse into the foster care system in America and the lives of children who fell through the cracks because of a broken system.