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Bánat és öröm

Meg Mason

4.16 AVERAGE

challenging emotional funny reflective slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

The book does a good job depicting the experience of mental illness and challenges with getting diagnosed and medicated. She is not a likable character perse, but that is in part the illness. The book was well written and funny in a dark way and the author does a good job exploring the nuances of mental illness on relationships and life trajectory.

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emotional funny hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
emotional sad medium-paced
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
dark reflective sad

This book wrecked me in the best way. I’ve never felt so seen. Martha’s constant tug-of-war with herself, the way she stumbles, self-sabotages, and still tries to keep going feels painfully familiar. At its heart, Sorrow and Bliss is about living with an undiagnosed mental illness and how that shapes every relationship, every attempt at love, every false start. It’s for anyone who has ever felt unlovable, wanted love desperately, and then fumbled it the moment they had it. It’s sad, but also tender, and by the end there’s a flicker of hope that lingers, which I really appreciated.

Mixed feelings about this one, and I guess that's appropriate. It's well written--it kept me hooked and I read it quickly.
medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
emotional funny medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
dark emotional informative reflective sad tense medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
dark emotional funny informative sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
dark emotional hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes