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The Giving Tree

Shel Silverstein

4.29 AVERAGE

armeyguyrules's review

4.0

The Giving Tree
│Grade Level: A │ Percent Grade: 90%
│Genre:Children’s Fiction │Bittersweet │ Thought-Provoking │

General Review (No Spoilers)
The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein is a timeless and touching children’s story about the relationship between a tree and a boy. Written in simple language and accompanied by minimalistic black-and-white illustrations, the book tells a deeply emotional story that resonates with readers of all ages.

Though primarily aimed at young readers, the book’s underlying themes of selflessness, love, and the dynamics of giving and receiving make it a thought-provoking read for adults as well. Its simplicity is deceiving, as the narrative subtly touches on complex ideas such as sacrifice, environmental awareness, and human nature.

Someone who enjoys emotional, meaningful stories or allegories will find *The Giving Tree* to be a memorable experience. The relationship between the boy and the tree is symbolic of how people often take things for granted and how love can manifest in many forms, even if one side seems to give more than the other. It can also serve as a starting point for discussing bigger life lessons with young readers.

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Spoilers Ahead!

Full Plot and Thoughts (Including Spoilers)
The Giving Tree tells the story of a boy who befriends a tree. As a child, the boy enjoys spending time with the tree, swinging from her branches and eating her apples. The tree loves the boy deeply and is happy to provide for him. However, as the boy grows older, he visits the tree less frequently, and each time he returns, he asks the tree for something to satisfy his changing needs.

The boy first asks for her apples to sell for money, and the tree happily gives them. Then, he asks for her branches to build a house, and the tree gives those too. Later, he asks for her trunk to build a boat, leaving the tree as a stump. Each time, the tree gives all that she can, even though it means taking away parts of herself. In the end, the boy, now an old man, returns one last time. He has no more requests except for a place to sit and rest, and the tree, now only a stump, offers herself as a seat.

The book's deeper meaning lies in its exploration of the nature of giving and the complexities of human relationships. The tree’s unconditional love for the boy mirrors how a parent might sacrifice everything for a child. However, the story also highlights the imbalance in relationships where one party gives endlessly while the other takes without understanding the consequences. The boy’s repeated requests can be seen as a reflection of humanity’s relationship with nature, where resources are taken without considering the long-term effects.

At its core, The Giving Tree addresses the question: What does it mean to give? The tree’s giving is both beautiful and tragic because it leads to her depletion. Some readers may view the tree’s sacrifice as a symbol of unconditional love, while others might interpret it as a cautionary tale about the dangers of selflessness, where one gives until they have nothing left. Similarly, the boy’s behavior, while not malicious, is often seen as a symbol of human selfishness or entitlement.

The ending, where the tree is happy simply to provide the boy with a place to rest, can be seen as either a satisfying conclusion to their relationship or a sad reflection of the one-sided nature of their bond. This duality is what makes the book so thought-provoking and open to interpretation. The story remains relevant across generations because of its ability to evoke different emotions and thoughts depending on the reader’s perspective.

In summary, The Giving Tree is a powerful narrative about love, sacrifice, and the dynamics of giving and receiving. Its simple storytelling conceals complex themes that linger in the minds of readers long after they finish the book.
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_taffy_'s review

5.0

This was interesting and strangely sad. I feel like this could be interpreted a lot of different ways. Personally, though, I feel like it's just a commentary on society - i just think that most people have been both the tree and the boy at one time or another.... I mean i know i have. I kinda think this story could also be a lesson but idk how to put it into words
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katilizbowden's review

4.0

I see the controversy. Gender roles, selfishness, self-sacrifice as life lessons? Or should we instead see the wrong of the boy? The self-sacrifice of a mother? Criticism? Silverstein’s illustrations have such a hand/built, loving quality.

holidak's review

2.0

sick book about co-dependency. never really saw the point of it. That's NOT love.
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ririsreads_'s review

5.0

A great story for anyone young and old.

reader2211's review

5.0

One of the best children's books of all time!

bk_gjendem's review

2.0

How depressing.
hopeful inspiring fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Plot
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

jstein's review

1.0

Makes me cry every time I read it. The tree gives the boy everything, and gets treated like trash every step of the way. Hopefully this isn’t just a metaphor for raising children?
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mellybelly93's review

5.0
emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective sad fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated