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Ace: What Asexuality Reveals about Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen
92 reviews
nica_chan's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Acephobia/Arophobia
nad_books623's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Sexual content and Acephobia/Arophobia
Minor: Sexual violence, Rape, Sexual assault, Religious bigotry, and Racism
zackarinareads's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
Moderate: Ableism, Racism, and Rape
cheriepie's review against another edition
That said I think it focuses almost too heavily on sex neutral-to-favorable aces, and honestly on heteromantic aces as well. While Chen does talk with non-heteromantic aces, their romantic orientation doesn't seem to be a part of the discussion. Having a heteromantic-heavy view definitely skews things when you base your theory off of it -- the way that Chen explains "compulsory sexuality" only holds water if you believe that there is no societal difference between the way gay and straight sex are viewed, which is demonstrably untrue. I feel like talking with a non-heteromantic ace about their identity and how it intersects with their ace identity might have helped more in threading that needle.
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
savvylit's review against another edition
4.5
Ace was an incredibly informative read that left me feeling like I really and truly LEARNED while reading it. As I had hoped from the title alone, I discovered so much about the full spectrum of ace identity and it's history. That alone was plenty fascinating and enlightening. However, I was delighted that there was even more to learn; Ace gave me a much more expansive view of sexuality (in general) and consent than I'd had before reading. Throughout the book, Chen illustrates how our society makes sexuality and desire feel compulsory. Chen then uses this idea of compulsory sexuality to introduce the ace perspective on consent. Specifically, Chen points to the concept of hermeneutical injustice - the idea that lacking language for yourself & your needs is a form of violence. If you don't have the words for why you don't want to do something, it is so much harder to say no. This concept is essential to the ace community but is also something that could - and should - be applied to our understanding of injustice in the world at large.
In short, Ace gave me loads of useful knowledge and I am so grateful for my now-expanded view of sexuality and desire.
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
alspacedout's review against another edition
Couple weird nonsequitors like the best friends bashing one of their mother's skull in introducing us to non sexual, platonic/romantic obsession lol.
Moderate: Murder
Minor: Sexual assault, Acephobia/Arophobia, Forced institutionalization, and Toxic relationship
angela_p's review against another edition
4.5
Moderate: Acephobia/Arophobia
Minor: Sexual violence and Rape
melodyseestrees's review against another edition
4.5
The writing style was just okay. It isn't the most grabbing but there are moments that resonated with me. I managed to enjoy the read despite a few organizational quirks.
Graphic: Ableism, Acephobia/Arophobia, and Sexual content
Moderate: Racism, Rape, and Sexual assault
Minor: Gaslighting
_alias_ali's review against another edition
3.75
some things i stumbled upon/found problematic were:
- the author reproducing harmful virginity narratives and not once questioning them while she questions so many other sexual narratives in this book about questioning societal sexual narratives??
- her very badly chosen examples of _passionate non-sexual relationships_ that had some unnecessary connection to MURDER?? very unlucky choices and one didn't even have anything to do with asexuality. (especially since she does criticize the harmful typecasting of aces as heartless sociopaths but then partakes in it as well tho implicitly?)
-the book imtroduces many many names of people and i got them mixed up easily. their experiences are thrown in at random places in the text when i had already forgotten about their introduction
anyway, i still really did enjoy this read and took a lot away from it, and be it the need for further exploration and discussion of socially constructed narratives of sexuality and relationships.
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
Moderate: Murder, Ableism, Rape, Sexism, and Sexual violence
dreamerfreak's review against another edition
4.5
Minor: Acephobia/Arophobia and Sexual violence