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4.05 AVERAGE
I wanted to like Quiet more than I did – I DNF’d it. It’s been a long time but I remember thinking that some of the research the author highlighted was really interesting but also that she had an overly broad definition of introversion and some of the things she included seemed like a reach to me.
Honestly, I put it down because it didn’t resonate with me. I’m introverted and I’m lucky enough not to have much damage / shame / angst around being introverted – I just didn’t relate to the author’s approach. I’m glad it exists for people who need it, but I’m also happy not to need it.
(Seriously, my old therapist was surprised – in a good way – by how self-accepting I am about this. But I grew up with happily introverted parents. I have lots of issues, but not about being an introvert.)
Honestly, I put it down because it didn’t resonate with me. I’m introverted and I’m lucky enough not to have much damage / shame / angst around being introverted – I just didn’t relate to the author’s approach. I’m glad it exists for people who need it, but I’m also happy not to need it.
(Seriously, my old therapist was surprised – in a good way – by how self-accepting I am about this. But I grew up with happily introverted parents. I have lots of issues, but not about being an introvert.)
As an introvert, a reminder that we all contribute is nice. At times, the book felt judgemental, repetitive, and long-winded -- which made it difficult to engage with.
informative
reflective
medium-paced
A thoughtful book exploring cultural introversion, what it is, why it’s great and we need more of it, and how to get by as an introvert in an extrovert world.
I wish this had been more study-focused instead of case-study focused. Ultimately interesting and validating though!
Very insightful and enjoyable read about introversion and it's perks, plus some very noteworthy concepts illuminating the strengths of both introversion and extroversion. Redacting one star because I feel like the book could be a lot more concise and tends to derail to much into detailed individual examples.
informative
fast-paced
Being an extrovert I usually see the world through that lens. It is good for me to change my glasses and see the world the way others experience it. I thought this book was great for helping me better appreciate my fellow introvert travelers. I definitely recommend it.
informative
reflective
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challenging
hopeful
informative
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medium-paced
This book really helped me understand parts of myself and the reason they came into being. I am two sides of the same coin: I was encouraged to be an extrovert, thriving in society when ‘pretending’ to be the extrovert everyone needed and doing an extrovert job that I loved. However, as I have gotten older, I have paid more attention to that secret introvert. The part I consider the ‘real me.’ And I loving giving that side of my character just as much attention. Upbringing plays a crucial part in the acceptance of oneself. This book helped me realise A LOT and allowed me to breathe a sigh of relief! I loved all the anecdotes and stories to explain complicated theories…the only downside for me was some of the science behind it all was a little too cerebral for me!