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Motherhood

Sheila Heti

3.69 AVERAGE

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: N/A
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: N/A

I found thought-provoking insights mixed in with a large dose of tenuos causal leaps and randomness. It's as much about decision paralysis and depression as it is about motherhood. I really enjoyed the unusual structure and irreverence, there's definitely a sense of 'what will she say next?' and the ending is satisfying.

It was definitely a challenge. Mostly it was boring, but here and there I found shining nuggets of wisdom and insight. And I'm grateful for that
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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes

“For a woman of curiosity, no decision will ever feel like the right one. In both, too much is missing.”

This was an interesting read! Could have easily been cut down to a novella and gotten the same point across, but it didn’t drag much. Coin flipping & tarot card divination were fun bits to include.

BOOK REVIEW: MOTHERHOOD BY SHEILA HETI

I read Motherhood on the recommendation of a friend (olive) who read Pure Color and raved about it. I downloaded the audiobook and was surprised / excited that the author decided to read it. In the end, I’m really glad for it. It felt like she was too young-sounding, girlish, and immature to read for the narrator.

Fuck, it fucked me up. First off, the narrator (I’m pretty sure Sheila Heti herself) is of Hungarian Jewish descent. Her grandmother, Magda, is a key, distant character in the book. It’s haunting. She spins a story out of ancestral threads. Which, in a spiritual / god way, I like. That’s how I also like to imagine :god / the universe / an Other Power:

The crux of the book felt validating in a taking-antidepressants-every-day-at-an-extremely-low-dose kind of way.

I won’t spoil whether or not the narrator comes to the conclusion of whether or not she will have a child. It is imperative that anyone who has even remotely thought of child rearing as a possibility or people who are generally interested in the questioning of “our biological drive” (her words) should read this. Not just creatives/artists-really, anyone. It’s universal like that. And she does such a snarky, relevant job of mulling over the age old question of What A Woman Is With and Without Children? It’s a thesis statement I’ve wondered at all my life.

I want to address comments made in other reviews that are a sort of disclaimer. The narrator is an esoteric person (to say the least, lol, she flips coins to make life decisions-but a revelation occurs when the narrator questions decision making and actual doing of said decision-I promise it’s good). But, yeah, she can come off as really selfish and says uncomfortable things to the reader. It’s something I personally enjoy, but I know that isn’t everyone’s cup of tea.

I’m definitely going to read Pure Color. And I know I constantly tell everyone this *insert book, meal, etc.* has changed my life, but, seriously. This book has changed my life.

Thanks for reading this!

Uuuh, I don't know about this one.
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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
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Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

Last sentence packed a punch. Sure, parts of the book felt a bit too meandering and repetitive. But so is life, and this book felt like a faithful enough representation of life for meandering and repetition to be expected.