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This book was helpful to my understanding of my twenties. 
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I can appreciate a self-help book written by a PhD.

This one feels like a long conversation with one’s mom, if one’s mom were an upper middle class, probably white person with a PhD. She seems part-therapist, part-life coach.

The central premise, which is hard to disagree with, is that your twenties are not throwaway years.

The first section on work was pretty blah (maybe that’s because I have gotten good career advice from my own parents) and I figured it meant that the rest of the book would be, for lack of better adjectives, stuffy and WASPy. Fortunately, I thought the section on love was gold and the section on body and brain was worthwhile.

I largely suspect that one’s opinions on the relative value of each sections depends on how much is review versus new information.

The more you grew up in a well-adjusted household with parents who were competent adults (ha! As if that describes anyone), the more this is probably review.

But there’s also probably good information in here for any person in their twenties and it only takes a few hours to read. I was pleasantly surprised by how much was useful to me, as a 28-year-old with her shit generally together already.

On the whole, I’m glad this book exists and that it was recommended to me!
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A good book for this period in life where there are more questions than answers, but also providing more questions in order to answer the original questions, if that makes sense.
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I think there are a lot of solid takeaways here for anyone who is feeling lost or uncertain about their future in their twenties. However, it’s clear that a lot of what this author has to say comes from a place of financially privileged and heteronormative bias re: careers and marriage/family. Some of the advice feels outdated in the current state of the US economy and is written under the assumption that everyone wants to follow a traditional life path.

cue existential crisis
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