4.03 AVERAGE


It's good. It's really good. It's witty and articulate. I'm not sure the main plot is totally believable but works well for creating very believable characters. The mother role is so different but so important in so many different cultures.
dark emotional hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
challenging dark emotional funny hopeful reflective sad tense medium-paced

This book has so much going on. Lots of ideas to discuss about relationships, motherhood, transitioning (and detransitioning), family, allyship...  I should have maybe slowed down to digest it more. You could probably  do several book club meetings and still not cover everything. 

I am not sure how I feel about Katrina, her mixed-Asian identity, and her overall character in the book. Maybe I'm too sensitive?

And that ending...

Sourced: Pride month

This book is filled with so much pain, veering into numbness. Very nuanced portrayal of trans characters and their psychology, though it reminds me too much of Nevada by Imogen Binnie at times. The plot is meh, felt like all of the characters just took a big circle detour and arrived back at exactly where they started when the book finished, with nothing changing at all.
challenging funny reflective tense fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes

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challenging reflective sad medium-paced
challenging emotional hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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challenging dark funny

I've really learned so much about the struggles of being a trans woman, and I'm grateful for this understanding. I'm so happy I learned all this from this lovely, well-written novel. I really wanted to be able to connect with it 100% on an emotional level, but I just couldn't. Some things were a little too messy for me to feel comfortable. I know it's just a personal preference, not a quality issue.
challenging dark emotional funny informative reflective sad tense
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes