She Comes First by Ian Kerner (date?)

What I have never understood is why so few people make an effort to learn how to be good at sex. Like actually making an effort to read or learn the science and techniques of sex and of how the bodies of the opposite sex work somehow is a waste of time. This would be a decent book for any guy who is at that stage of his life where he is working to get laid for the first time and actually wants to not embarrass himself (of course, he should read about ten other books with different perspectives too). And it is a decent supplemental book for young woman who should be making an effort to understand their own bodies and how things work...and maybe how to give constructive tips to their partner.

It is also a great book for guys of any age with some experience under their belt but suspect they maybe they could use some tips but whose ego won't let them just ask their partner or follow their partners instructions. (Note...this would be a LOT of guys, and yes, probably includes you).

And for anybody having a conniption right now about "pre-marital sex" or whatever, that is your hang-up not mine...so, if I don't want to get married till I'm much older or maybe never, I should never have sex?

So, having said that, the entire first few chapters were ridiculous...the author goes on and on and on and on about how important it is to consider the woman and that it isn't all about the man...yes...important...but say it once and move on. He did a good job about explaining anatomy...and even if his "methods" don't work for you, he gives a great place to start and things to try. So the writing was mediocre, some of the content was lame, but there was some worthwhile stuff here.
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i’m happy for u straight people

A lesson in anatomy more than anything! Fun read.
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I don’t trust a book about a man telling other men how to give vaginal oral lol. This guy seems to think that there’s a “formula” to oral, even if it just is a starting point.

I will admit I have been debating if I wanted to log this one on Goodreads. There are some people who would be clutching their pearls at the thought of a book about cunnilingous, but realistically I consider myself to be a very sex positive person and too many adults in the USA are woefully undereducated about sexuality (especially women's sexuality). If you are one of the people fortunate enough to have received comprehensive sex education and be in a relationship with open communication you probably won't take much from this book. To be honest there wasn't any information here that a person shouldn't already be fully aware of as an adult. I however know there are a lot of people walking around who don't even know their own anatomy let alone that of their partner. I heard a coworker say there didn't need to be sex education because I quote "I got a pole, they got a hole what's there to learn about", that attitude makes me think maybe books like this have an important role to play.
informative slow-paced
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