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Beartown by Fredrik Backman

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

"She wonders what it would take for a woman to be the right kind of guy."
"Their coach teaches them to go hard into close combat on the ice. No one stops to think about how to switch that attitude off when they leave the locker room. It's easier to pin the blame on her: She's too young. Too attractive. Too easily offended. Too difficult to respect."
"Why Maya's word wasn't enough."

An infuriating book about loyalty and integrity.

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This is one of the best books I have ever read that is just about people. It flits through so many different povs from people in Beartown, yet somehow makes them each a complete and whole character, by showing them through the angles of themselves and everyone they know. It is really masterful. 
This book is also insanely sad. It is heart-wrenchingly devastating in a way that makes you feel this old, deep misery in your stomach. I felt genuine pain reading this and also thinking about it. I had to put it down sometimes not just because it's heavy (I've read much heavier books), but because every character is going through so much pain. Every person in the community whether you like them or not, is going through their own story and their own pain. 
It's a book about hockey. 
But it is not about hockey. 
I don't play hockey. I have never seen a hockey game. But it doesn't matter, because the characters love hockey. It is what brings them together and that is what you can connect to. 
This book is filled with so much love and sadness and hope and grief and pain, generally just so much emotion that it's hard to read sometimes from all the feeling Backman makes you do. 
My favorite characters are Benji (boy with the sad eyes and the wild heart), Kira (the mother wolf), Peter, Maya, Ana, Romona and Amat. I don't know if David is the best character or the worst one. 
The biggest tragedy is that in the first act Backman builds up all the pride and hope the town has for Kevin, that you start to feel that he's your hero too. So when the
rape
is committed, thats when you feel all of it fall away as if you are another person in Beartown. And then the rage comes, the rage at the fact that such an act can be committed and people will still say that the boy is innocent because they would rather
label a girl as a slut
than look in the mirror and see what their community as done to themselves. 
Last of all the writing is insanely gorgeous, simple at times but with lines that take your breath away. 
I did cry. 

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Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

UPDATE: After a meaningful conversation with @ashsaxreadsstacks, I'm pulling my stars for this book. (Not giving it 0 stars, just unsure of how to rate.) I'm also adding this addendum to my review: I'm not really sure how to think or feel about this book now. Perhaps Backman (a cishet white man) was not the right person to write a story about the SA of a young girl. Maybe stories about rape, especially those that delve into the feelings and perspectives of the victims, should not be told by people who don't share those lived experiences. I also obviously don't know what Backman's experiences are. But these are now questions I'm asking and wondering.

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Fredrik Backman is a brilliant writer, and my only regret after finishing this book is that I didn't pick it up eight years ago when it was first published. This book very much felt like if Backman finished watching all five seasons of Friday Night Lights and then chose to write FNL fan fiction set in the world of competitive junior hockey. And while that may sound a little derivative, FNL is one of my favorite shows of all time, and if I could have chosen anyone to write a book with similar themes, characters, and even conflicts, I probably would have chosen Backman.

For those who have read his other popular works, especially Ove and Anxious People, just know that this book is thematically darker. The entire book revolves around the rape of a young girl by a rising hockey superstar and the events that follow. I'm not sure how I feel about a man writing about the feelings and experiences of a young girl who has survived sexual assault (not great, I think), but I do feel that Backman consistently tries to approach his writing with empathy and intentionality.

My favorite part of the book (and my favorite part of Backman's writing, in general) is the way he is able to create an entire town of characters, create distinct personalities for these characters, and then show the different ways these characters interact with each other in different contexts. I was so invested in these characters' stories, particularly Benji, Amat, and Maya, and I'm looking forward to reading the next books in the trilogy.

I also highly recommend listening to this one on audiobook, as Marin Ireland is a brilliant narrator who has never failed to captivate me with her storytelling.

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Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
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