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challenging hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced

5.0

5/5 ⭐ 
0/5 🌶️ 

 Tropes
- meditation 
- spiritual and Buddhist themes 
- self help 

 📖 My Thoughts
This book was recommended to me by my therapist. I found that I could feel empathy for others but have a hard time holding space for myself. I can recognize my own feelings, but accepting them and nurturing them is another thing. The inner work i feel like will be difficult but totally doable. Where I got triggered was applying compassion to all relationships outside of my inner world. Particularly when it comes to forgiveness. Without diving into too much detail, I don’t have the space right now to forgive the person who is the “cause” of my therapy. However the book describes a philosophy of how learning self compassion is what allows you to extend to other beings. Overall I loved this book and recommend it for anyone who is interested in meditation, mindfulness, and healing trauma. 

 ⚠️ Triggers
Drugs, addiction, disability, eating disorders, mentions of various religions, suicide thoughts, death, divorce and some extras. 

🏳️‍🌈Representation
This is non fiction but it did have stories from people from all walks of life. Old/young, disabled and athletes, people with addiction, people of colour, queer folks, etc. Tara acknowledges that she is writing from a white prospective, but she stayed true to an intersectional and compassionate approach. 


📝 Special Notes
This is her second most recent book on this topic. I have not read the first.

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greenfigtree's review against another edition

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hopeful mysterious slow-paced

3.25

carolinerosereads's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective fast-paced

4.75

joannayhs's review against another edition

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hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

3.0

gijs's review against another edition

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4.0

3,5 stars; useful insights and a workable RAIN (recognize allow investigate nurture) principle up until chapter 6; afterwards the story takes a deep nosedive and feels redundant.

storyshory's review against another edition

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medium-paced

4.5

erose99's review against another edition

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hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.5

kellym10's review against another edition

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5.0

This book rang true for me as a way to work through difficult emotions and feelings I'm not proud of having.

ritachakko's review against another edition

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Couldn't get into it

audhdylan's review against another edition

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5.0

I intend to come back and write a thorough review of this soon. One of the better self-help books I've read, as recommended by my therapist.