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The Lies That Bind

Emily Giffin

3.47 AVERAGE


I'm going to be honest... I'm having an incredibly hard time reviewing this book. I've changed my star rating a few times because I really don't know how I feel.

I'll start with the good: I read this book in less than 24 hours. I absolutely flew through it. Giffin's writing is addicting and I was completely sucked in to the complete insanity of the story. (Sidenote: I realized this book was crazy when I started giving my husband a play-by-play and laughed my way through it.)

So now for the bad: Reading this book made me feel like I was rubbernecking in traffic past a horrific accident, so I think I maybe flew through it because it was a little bit of a dumpster fire? I had to know what was going to happen to all of these horrible people. It seems like the end was attempting to tie this book up with a bow but it's really difficult when I don't feel like a single character was the least bit redeemable.
Spoiler
I think we are supposed to be rooting for the main character, Cecily to end up with "the right guy" but she is so immature and seemingly incapable of making a selfless decision that I was hoping she would ditch both of the bozos and go off on her own to figure her shit out.

Grant is a world-class asshole who might be the only New Yorker to view 9/11 as exactly what he needed to get out of his marriage and the legal trouble he was in. While the people who loved him mourned the loss of their friend/husband/boyfriend he was off on an extended camping trip evading the feds.

And Matthew? I mean, he is as manipulative as they get. The thought alone of Cecily (as flawed as she is) ending up with this hoity-toity, pretentious jerk-off, made me keep turning the pages to make sure she made at least one good decision by kicking him to the curb.



Emily Giffin is a great author and I love what I have read of her previous work but this one has me very uncertain. Did I love this book? Hate it? Or was it so far-fetched that I didn't care and just kept reading to find out what could possibly happen next? It's strange how my complicated feelings will stick with me longer than a book I loved through and through.

(Hot Take: I will say I was I was confused by incredibly off-putting use of 9/11 as a way to move the plot of this book forward. It seemed a little careless of the author.)
emotional hopeful mysterious sad slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
emotional medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

A quick read but a disappointing one from an author I usually really enjoy. I really didn’t like the twist or the ending.

2.5⭐️

Definitely not one of my favorites. The "twists" were predictable, and the main character very unlikable.
challenging emotional funny hopeful sad tense medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I’m fluctuating between 2.5 and 3 stars, so 2.75 stars it is. I have several issues with this book, but I’ll just name one. Cecily brought a guy back to her apartment to spend the night with her even though he was a stranger that hadn’t even given his name, and the next morning she let him use her toothbrush!!!!!! I’ve known my husband for over 20 years, and I would never let him put my toothbrush in his mouth. I’m the book was all downhill from there.

ashley_stevens's review

4.0

A very cute quick read book with some unexpected turns!
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allisooonk's review against another edition

DID NOT FINISH: 15%

there were 106 (one hundred and six!!!!!!) ellipses within 51 pages. that’s averaging over two a page. but in reality, you would get a miraculous three-page break before getting curbstomped by ten within four lines of dialogue. literally choose any other punctuation mark that denotes a pause.

emily giffin… i just have to ask… why… would you do… that…