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Ace Voices: What it Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi or Grey-Ace by Eris Young
9 reviews
celestepaed's review against another edition
4.25
Moderate: Acephobia/Arophobia, Sexism, Racism, and Mental illness
Minor: Ableism, Religious bigotry, Toxic relationship, and Sexual violence
vampire_burrito's review
Graphic: Mental illness, Sexual harassment, and Acephobia/Arophobia
sarahna's review
4.5
Graphic: Misogyny, Rape, Sexual content, Mental illness, Toxic relationship, Dysphoria, Ableism, Acephobia/Arophobia, and Medical content
mfrisk's review against another edition
3.0
Moderate: Sexual content, Sexual violence, Ableism, Misogyny, Sexual assault, Homophobia, Sexism, Lesbophobia, Acephobia/Arophobia, Sexual harassment, and Biphobia
foreverinastory's review
3.5
Ace Voices is non-fiction about various terms and intersections present in the aspec community. This book very much highlights both asexual and aromantic voices, and the author is both, so seeing this only titled Ace is very misleading and feels a little like aro erasure. Yes people can be both things at once, but they can also only be asexual or only aromantic. In the beginning the author also mentions an argument they were going to make that will convince people that aromanticism and asexuality are the same, but I still very much disagree. Ultimately I didn't even really see an argument about them being the same thing in this text, but even if it was there I don't agree.
Besides that point, I highly enjoyed this book. It was interesting that it had discussion questions at the end of each chapter. I feel like these can be geared towards allo allies, aspec people beginning to question or even aspec people wanting to explore how new terms could represent how they experience attraction. I don't know if I really learned anything new, but as I'm someone who's very plugged into the aroace community, this doesn't surprise me.
I most enjoyed seeing how other aspec people related and hearing personal anecdotes. I do kind of wish we got longer snippets from the interviews or even got to have these people write whole essays like in Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex. Overall, decent non-fiction aspec text.
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
midnightcomets's review
5.0
Furthermore, the amount of people who were interviewed for this or spoken to was quite big, making the demographic extremely diverse and wonderfully spread around experiences and identities on the spectrum.
Minor: Sexual assault and Acephobia/Arophobia
bonriki's review
3.0
Moderate: Acephobia/Arophobia
ezwolf's review
5.0
The way the author describes their own personal relationship with gender and sexuality really resonated with me and I was comforted to read about. Even though what I consider my gender/sexuality is still a giant question mark, to know that it was relatable to so many people makes a difference. I also found it fascinating how many a-spec people tend to label themselves as bi/pan to avoid having to explain the intricacies of their relationship with their queer identity. I have already started recommending friends to read this once it's published!
I don't have a lot of standing on this front as a white person (but I also appreciated that in the discussion of religion Judaism was discussed!), but I think that Young did an excellent job touching on the subject of asexuality/aromanticism as seen through Western eyes and also how it plays into other cultures. Like many aspects of the queer community, it is often looked at through a white Western gaze and excludes POC experiences.
Part of what I think helped with the way Young made sure to not only include the white perspective was by referencing other works or talks done by queer POC, like Ace: What Asexuality Reveals about Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen. This has been on my reading list for a while now and it was referenced enough in this book that I will definitely make reading it more of a priority.
Thank you to NetGalley for making this available in exchange for an honest review!
Moderate: Acephobia/Arophobia, Transphobia, Colonisation, Misogyny, and Classism
Minor: Religious bigotry and Genocide
anastasia_raf's review
5.0
Ace Voices by Eris Young is the representation I've been waiting for my whole life. It's the blanket my young ace self would use to warm themself up and hide under to find a world where I'm not weird. I'm unique. I'm not immature. I'm just different. I am not loveless. I'm precious. I'm ace, and that describes me in my wholeness, not lackness.
Minor: Sexual assault, Acephobia/Arophobia, Child abuse, and Genocide